Girls, Ladies, how do you get that clueless mf to realize he has to step up to be with you?

[DishLady]

It's basically all in the main question line. Picture yourself at the point where you're fed up. You see he's interested, but for whatever reason he's not taking that last step to ask to be with you. What's your next move?

Walk away and if he doesn't figure it out, tough 💩.

Have a talk and state plainly this is what you want... what does HE want? (Perhaps set a date by which time he should make his decision.)

Something else (explain in a post).

[IslaTheWitch]

for me it happens naturally, my first partner was the one who asked me to be with him

with my ex-husband, it was me who said that I can see that things between us can end in only one way :D

but it was obvious that what happened between us was mutual :D

[northerngal]

Well to be honest I would usually just go and ask him whats the problem! Like is too short to wait around.

[WhitneySnow]

The second option