Girls, what would you do if you feel under appreciated by your boyfriend?

[Eempriyanka]

I'm in a complicated situation. My boyfriend doesn't make me his priority. He keeps me as a secondary option. I'm a pretty girl. But I don't feel that way, my boyfriend doesn't make me feel beautiful. He doesn't appreciate my true physical features!

What should I do?

[Summeroflove]

It’s called communication but just remember making someone a priority goes both ways, many people expect to be put first but they refuse to put someone else first which ends up chasing decent people off.

Not saying that’s what you’re doing. Communicate how you feel and if you’re just not happy break the relationship off. If you’re putting all the effort into the relationship getting little to none in return it’s one sided and if someone’s a narcissist it doesn’t matter what you do or how pretty you are. They are there to take advantage of someone.

Im not saying he is a narcissist. But a narcissist will always put themselves first and expect everyone else to put them over themselves… Sounds weird and one sided but that’s because it’s what it is. They care about their needs/wants being met. But could care less about someone else’s unless it benefits themselves. That’s how it is.

But some people just also don’t realize how they make someone feel that’s why communication is important.

[bowenw]

If he doesn't appreciate you I suggest you find someone that does.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[natured]

RUN, that's what I can tell you, coming from a similar situation in my past all I can say is RUN !! Because a Man that loves you will never make you doubt about you and the relationship in general.
If you don't feel appreciated I will guarantee you nothing will change... some people are who they are and they will stay that way, it's up to you if you want to continue going through this or if you want to stay alone and attract a healthier relationship in the future.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

You sit down and tell him thus if he doesn't want to change then you either deal with it or leave no one deserves to feel like the second choice though

[Jay-_-]

I suggest you talk to him about it and if you don't come to a mutual understanding find someone who's worth it.

[Grond21]

Can you give a few more details?

[vj0090]

Where r u from... kahan se ho

[aycosko]

I didn't get to the discretion of others.

[Anonymous]

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