The other day he mentioned he was feeling stressed, and I told him "don't worry, it will all get back to normal in a few days", just tried to give him some reassurance which always makes people feel a little better.
So for the past 2 days, he usually calls me everyday but I could tell he just didn't want to speak to anyone because he didn't call , but he texted me one of the days. I don't know why but whenever we don't talk or have poor communication, I always think that maybe he is falling out of love with me. I can't help it :(
Last night, when he called me, I was wrapping up making a cute video with funny reasons on why I love him. I thought this might cheer him up and he would appreciate it. He was on the phone with me while he watched it, he played it over 3-4 times and laughed every time. But in the end, he never said thank you, or that he really likes it or that it was sweet of me...
Then after we hung up, he texted me saying good night again and I texted back saying I love you and he just responded with a heart icon and I responded with an " :/ " face and didn't hear anything back from him.
I mean if I knew he was upset/emotional, I always try to comfort him but sometimes I feel like he doesn't care about anything except himself and his job.
Also, its that time of the month for me, so I am a little "depressed" and I also am stressed out because of school too. I just don't see why he has to make me feel like I'm not appreciated.
We don't live close to each other but whenever I see him , he always SHOWS me he cares about me and is always hugging and kissing me. But I feel like since we don't live close enough that he should reassure me with his words sometimes.
Right now, I just feel like I want to leave him alone and I don't care if he is not in love with me anymore. I know that is just an assumption but that's exactly how I am feeling :(
Can someone tell me if I sound rational or not?
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