I think I am a pretty amazing girlfriend and pretty darn hot too. I keep myself up. That song cater to you by destiny's child is me. I love being his girlfriend and showing him my love.
He loves me. I know that. But I am not happy and countless talks on the matter have produced no changes. You see he never does ANYTHING for me. He has never taken me out on a date. Never. He thinks holidays are stupid and does not celebrate them at all. He used to write me sweet poems and send then via text during our first year together. That is now a very distant memory. He knows I love flowers. Not foe the romantic gesture. Just because I think they are pretty and fun to have around the house. After hinting and then flat out asking and never getting any I just started buying thm myself.
When I talk to him about his lack of making me feel special all I ever hear are excuses. He is broke. Yet when he does have money he spends it on weed. And that ain't cheap. Or he will blame it on the fight we had a month ago and he will say he needs tine to feel romantic about me again. I used to accept his excuses and rationalize them to myself. Somehow, some way I always ended up thinking his excuses were valid and went on my way continuing to love him the way I must because it is who I am. Four years.four freaking years. I feel like an idiot. We had "the conversation" again last night and after hearing the same excuses I feel DONE.
I told him so and did not hear from him all day today. That hurt. Maybe be just thinks I won't go anywhere so no need to contact me. Am I being overly sensitive here? Do some guys just not do those things for their girlfriends but still love them? Is that even possible?
an extreme gesture to say the least. He has not been home today and I don't know how to act when I do see him. I am not sure how I feel. Too little too late?
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