Well sounds like he has some prideful tendencies then, because he might take comfort or pleasure from the fact that if you don't know those cities, but he does, then he is smarter than you are which might make him feel superior to you. That score thing was a little weird comment, I mean if he did come to your class just to see how you scored and not to watch and form his own opinion about it then he does seem like the guy who likes to feel superiority to others or may get somekind of sadistic satisfaction putting others down. The girls are emotional comment I can somehow understand, because usually women are the more emotional or at least openly emotional people, though nowadays that has started to change. But you really need to have a serious conversation about these types of tendencies before they get out of hand, because these kind of things are things that can grind your relationship to dust. And remember if you are feeling unappreciated or belittled always talk about it and if your partner isn't willing to talk or just dismisses you, then I'd recommend re-evaluating your relationship and possibly breaking it off. Nobody is meant to feel that way in a relationship.
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Some guys are just stupid. There you are supporting him in what he does, and he can't even acknowledge your passion. IMO, your partner should not try to make you feel inferior or belittle you in any respect. He should at least realize how hard your working in dance, and try to understand from your perspective the amount of energy you're putting into it, especially if it is what you love. I don't know what to say..
"We have been dating a year and he has always done this." well if you stay with him you know it's not going to change right? even if you tell him he's an ass(and he is) he won't change he can't change this is who he is...is this something you can overlook and stay with him or do you want someone who doesn't treat you this way?
it's up to you really.
find something he will know very little about to do with girlie things and make him feel stupid.. but seriously just talk to him about it .
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