Why do we live in a world where men that are 6s, 7s, and 8s have to compete for women that are 4s, 5s, and 6s?

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Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Where did you get it from? It’s the other way round where I live. A woman who isn’t promiscuous, has a better qualification, even a better job, a much hotter body, a better accent than the usual accent here, a better skin condition, a cuter face and an entertaining personality has to compete for 4s who completely lack those traits.
Men did this to themselves. You compete for white women who are 4s. You all only want white women so the competition for 4s increases TREMENDOUSLY. A white female who is considered a 10 is not going to settle for anyone less than either Elon Musk 💸 or Henry Cavill 🔥 or whatever models you have. Even that 10/10 guy might still have a baby with a white girl who is 4-6 like look at Henry Cavill and he’s so happy. Maybe try other women too? Maybe don’t think a white 4 is still better than an Indian 8-10?

I don’t like whiny crybabies who act like a victim in the problem they created. It’s a universally known fact that women don’t care about melanin as much as men do.

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

It is not possible for either men or women to mostly be a lot higher on a scale than the other sex they are dating, taking the numbers you gave, if men who are 6s 7s and 8s are dating 4s 5s and 6s, then does that mean the women who are 7s 8s 9s and 10s are all dating guys who are 9s and 10s only? I don’t think that adds up. I think it might be a few things actually happening. For one thing you might have a more limited idea of how men or women “rate” than is actually the case, someone. you think is an 8 might actually not be that interesting to girls for example. If you are taking only about what you consider physically attractive, people have different opinions AND physical attractiveness is not the only factor anyway.

For another thing you might just notice situations that you think are strange in one particular direction, you might miss situations that are strange in the other direction, or ones that are not as surprising.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Are you basing this on looks, finances, status? If so, those are some red pill values.

If a decent looking guy with a job can't get a nice, decent looking girl, he must have other problems like shallow values or a shitty personality. Or he's looking for girls in the wrong places like on-line sites where everybody is trying to score a hot partner out millions of profiles around the world.

Too many people these days are looking for a partner who is out of their league.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Because. Your in to much of a hurry. To go know where. If you competing and you're probably looking at the wrong one. There are 5 billion out there that are single. Why do you want to compete.. That takes the focus off of who she really is

In the focus of you really getting to know her.

DishLady · Answer

"HAVE" to? No one has to do anything. And why would a woman 6+ want to deal with a guy who is 6-?

AviatorTom · Answer

Same thing happens for women. The 7,8 women are looking for 4, 5, 6 guys. Easier to catch, I guess.

MzAsh · Answer

If we’re gonna play the number game, let’s be honest, women who are 7s and 8s are constantly dating guys who would barely scrape a 4. So if anyone’s “dating down,” it’s usually women. But they do it because looks aren’t everything, and many women know how to value more than just a jawline and gym selfies.

Also, let’s stop acting shocked that women don’t have to chase men. Men are the pursuers. That’s just how it works. If you’re mad about it, maybe bring more to the table than a self assigned number.

The real question is why do you feel entitled to women you think are hotter than you? Because that attitude is probably the reason you’re losing my guy.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Considering there are more women than men in the world.. is that really true?
If you go on apps to try and get girls obviously everyone is gonna be giving the 7, 8, 9 girls all the attention so that is who you all are really competing for. 4, 5, and 6s get hit up a lot because guys think they are easier so they have their pick of men as well but not for anything serious. On dating apps when I tried them.. I noticed guys think they are hotter than they actually are.. So really you ain't competing for shit, you are just ugly and don't know it or you lack anything worthwhile.

alice55 · Answer

If you talk on dating app it’s because men swipe right on everyone absolutely everyone Even if the woman don’t have a pics hundred of men Will swipe right on her so women have to be jarsher in their standard if they don’t want to be flooded by message but truly don’t bother with dating Life

in real Life I don’t think there's much compétition ( except of of course the girl use dating app)

‘I would say reasons why men have to compète so much is because too many men are horny they lie to women they want relationship while oblybwanting sex and many are not able to make the différence between genuine intérest and just the due being horny so she think she can date more attractive men

slatyb · Answer

That's absurd. Do you imagine that the top quintile of men all have three girlfriends? And that there's nothing you can do to elevate yourself from a 5 to a 9? Mostly women just want a man who genuinely cares for them, who is interested, listens and pays attention. Maybe you could try that. It worked for me when I was a divorced single father.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Pretty sure any man who feels he “has to” compete for a woman is a 3 on his best day

A true “7” doesn’t compete for anything he goes for what he wants and what he feels he deserves
Even if the woman is a 12

Anonymous · Answer

Because most women do not want a relationship with ANY guy. That is the harsh truth. Most women today want a rotation of men just for attention, gifts, whatever she deems the men useful for. You might have at best 50% of women at any time dating. The other 50% are stringing multiple men along. Well a woman isn't going to CHOOSE a 2. If she gonna f*** she going to do it with an 8,9 or 10.

OneViewpoint · Answer

No one "has to" compete for anyone. That's a you thing. If you want to date down, don't blame "the world". Go take a look in the mirror and fix the things you can control. But that may take some effort on your part.

Anonymous · Answer

That is just your world, our immature resident troll.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I'm probably at best a 6 and maybe just maybe I could score a woman who's slightly hotter than me when it comes to straighter clearer teeth naturally teeth not braces assisted or surgery assisted either ❌ 🪥 🪥 🦷 🦷 🦷 🦷

RavVid · Answer

Once a woman has put on make up, put a push up bra, and been to the hair stylist a 4 looks in the mirror and thinks she is a 10. I'm not going to compete for a 4.

4ngelic · Answer

we dont, that's redpill brainrot. men who are actually attractive have no problem getting attractive women and only go after them. attractive men never touch bland women or ugly women

unknowngurll1212 · Answer

Maybe it's becoz attraction isn't just about looks—personality, values, and connections matter too. Everyone has their own unique qualities that can make them stand out...

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Why do we live in a world where people think a persons appearance can be represented accurately by a number?

Sunrising · Answer

Seems like all us males have been catalogued as being at sixes and sevens, I prefer the letters, all the M's!

Truthatanycost · Answer

They don't have to, they choose to... many choose not to.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think there's any evidence of that. I've seen all kinds of people with all kinds of other people.

es20490446e · Answer

If you find unfair the amount of work men have to put in, why not letting women do some of that work?

Anonymous · Answer

Your rating out of 10 about other peoples looks may not be the same as other people’s opinions

ProbablyClueless · Answer

We're in a moment of overcorrection/backlash against how the world used to be.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Based on who's opinion? I've seen people rate a girl 10 that I'd rate a 4. And vice versa.

oldpigg · Answer

It is because of hoeflation, women artificially inflate the value of sex by fixing prices.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not see that. I do see a lot of guys who are social awkward, desperate, and fearful of approaching..

DCVsMarvel · Answer

Can someone explain to me, the rating system. How is an 8 any worse than a 9, and how is a 4 any better than a 3?

vladivf · Answer

Because nowadays men have low standards; they are simpy; they are desperate for a relationship of any kind and women take advantage of these things.

Beautifuldisaster21 · Answer

Coz u date for looks and they don't. Ik some girls who are 9s but they marry 2s looking guys🤷.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

we dont, the men who r 6s and lower usually have 9s and up.

Sono83 · Answer

I don't believe in rating potential mates (or myself).

PhillyPhil · Answer

WTH are you talking about.

Agape93 · Answer

Because you choose to live in a fantasy world

HelpfulWoman · Answer

XD XD XD

chrissykerdock · Answer

what do 10's do

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Because beauty is subjective

exitseven · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Cristi019 · Answer

Thank God idgaf about that...

noohair · Answer

Are you a 4 or a 5?

nawtee_me · Answer

Are we talking inches here?

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Are they really though?

Knightwatch27 · Answer

Lol I think that's your world.

Pohjolan · Answer

USA is not the world.

Anonymous · Answer

Because this world is apparently not fair.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Assigning people numbers is stupid

Anonymous · Answer

Because those men are actually 1's and 2's

DrPepper12 · Answer

Not my world

Smegskull · Answer

Supply and demand.

Anonymous · Answer

There are more men

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