You happen to come across a co worker whom’ you find attractive on a dating app. What would you do?

[Danny_dan92]

Personally I’ve met a very small amount of attractive workers at my job.


And I have seen one on bumble. But I swiped left, only because no matter how hot she is. It’s not smart to mix business with pleasure

I’d swipe right

I’d swipe left

[Orion84]

I actually had that happen several years ago.

I didn't match her, because I felt that would be inappropriate, but I did quietly mention to her that I had seen her on there.

She was embarrassed, and begged me not to mention it to anyone else. I told her I had no intention of doing so, and that I only brought it up to wish her luck.

She was definitely grateful.

[Dongie]

Not sure which does what but I'd just mind my own business unless I knew and was friends with them.

[Hannajenky]

They’ll never know if you just swipe left, it comes across as stalking to swipe right I think, but you could just ask them out for coffee or happy hour rather than trying to online date them lol

[alice55]

swipe left it's too awkward

[Danny_dan92]

Agreed

[alice55]

If it end badly that can get you fired, you're in the army so you can' get fired (I think?) but for people with regular job it's very awkward. I know one woman who did it and went it ended she had to end her job and move away. It's a lot of mess for no reasons.

[Danny_dan92]

I was in the military not anymore. I work in the aerospace industry now but yeah, definitely. Worst case you can get fired.

Best case scenario you or that person get relocated.

[alice55]

Yes but even getting relocated is not fun especially if you like the place you're in.
Is it hard to be in the military? I wanted to enter my country military but my sport test were not good enough

[Anonymous]

Depends if there was chemistry with that person.

[chrissykerdock]

ask him if he'd like a blowjob after work