I feel trapped?

[Anonymous]

I moved away from a place that really hurt me. my family betrayed and abandoned me. so i started a new life. only to find out. my partner is making me feel something. constantly being told no. no i can't drive. no i can't go somewhere new. no im not interested in going to this place with you. etc it makes me body ache and i feel not so good.

[SteveSmith1985]

Hi, what I'm trying to determine is whether your situation is abusive. It's hard to tell from the examples you gave.

For example, "no I'm not interested in going to this place with you" is not abusive. That's normal relationship issues.

What's concerning is: "no you can't drive" (what was the sitution here? On a road-trip together? Or you wanting to go somewhere in your own car?)

The last one "you can't go somewhere new" again, I need to know more about what you mean by that? Are we talking about someone trying to tell you that you're not 'allowed' to go somewhere new by yourself? Or do you mean they won't go with you?

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake Grow Up and try starting acting your age. smh

[Asker]

Your answer must be for another question. cause i do not find this helpful at all.