Is it more attractive for a woman to have children then a woman who doesn’t have children in her 30s?

Question

I’ve been noticing a lot more men flock to women that have children rather than a woman dad has no children

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

No. It's not. I am going to tell you that what you're noticing is not actually a phenomenon. I'm not saying that you don't have cases of this happening to point to.

I'm saying you are wildly misunderstanding WHY those guys were drawn to those women who had kids.

It was because they were drawn to those women despite her having kids. They were interested in her. The fact that she had kids was not a positive factor in a guys mind. It didn't contribute in any way to his interest in her.

It is undeniably harder to find a guy if you already have kids for a simple reason. The pool of "potential partners" is necessarily smaller.

This is not a thing. This is backwards.

🙂

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

That is definitely not the case. A woman who doesn’t have kids, everything else being equal, is going to be preferable. And she’s still young enough to have them if she’s in her 30s. In contrast, a woman that age or younger who has kids is less likely to be able to afford to have more kids, and she has to spend lots of time, energy, and money on some other man’s kids, something other men won’t want to do if they can get a woman who doesn’t have kids.

Some guys might make an exception for a woman who’s still really young, especially if they’re a lot older than her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Makes no difference to me in terms of being attracted to the women. But if she does have kids, I'd want to get along with them as well. If they don't like me we'll I'd say I should move on because they should have more say about who they want raising em and the last thing I'd want is forcing innocent kids to like me and put up with me just cause I like their mother.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

i think it's the opposite. i think 30yo men are looking more for women with no backage who they could start a family from scratch with, rather than single mom

Finchie40 · Answer

Probably because women with children are easier to land then a girl without children is my guess , a single mother is more eager to meet someone so she can have help with her children.

AviatorTom · Answer

Having or not having kids has little to do with attractiveness.

Anonymous · Answer

Having or not having kids doesn’t make her more attractive as far as her looks. But having kids for a female who is looking for a man does lessen her chances a lot more significantly then it does for a female w out kids for a lot of reasons. One being that most men don’t want to take care of another man’s kids. The mother may say something like I don’t need a father for my son he has one, but the truth is the father isn’t living w them no more. There’s a lot of reasons why men don’t want to enter into a relationship w a ready made family.

Miristheiss · Answer

Attractive? I was attracted to women in their late teens and early 20's who had zero kids. That is when you marry them or find a long term partner, then you have your own kids with them.

Some single 30 year old? What is attractive about that? A 30-year old with kids? Nothing attractive at all. You mean she is single still? I mean if she is married with kids then I'm sure her husband finds her attractive. If you mean she is single still and wanting to date, in her 30's, with kids? No thanks. That ship has sailed.

MrChinaski · Answer

If I love a woman, I don't think it would change my emotions whether she had a child or not.

It can carry financial implications, though. If she is receiving child support from the erstwhile father, that is helpful. If she is earning a good income then that is helpful too. You need to know the financials before committing.

It sounds mercenary. Sinking your life savings into someone else's child is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to know what you are choosing to take on.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@justneedtokno I'd prefer me and my ideal woman to remain in our prime without the burden of having offspring which just brings faster the wear and tear on the human body + wrinkles especially, deflated tits + milk or no milk lol 😂

Jove79 · Answer

Maybe the guys like the women with kids because they actually want a partner, and women with a kid make it more easier for them to date them.. where as a female who’s single, no kids and attractive will have much much much higher standards.. just a theory

Fireguy17 · Answer

To me it didn't matter. The only thing that did matter is if the kids were being used as pawns in a bad divorce. I would pass, way too much drama.

Lokiion · Answer

Yeah, that's not the case at all not saying what you're seeing isn't happening but the kids are not a plus factor in fact I would say it's a lot harder when you have kids I personally think they just wanted a good time since they assume she is experienced not because they care about the kids.

Shiprex · Answer

I don't think it is one bit. Men who like children or have their own may have something in common with women with children but seldom would single men seek out women with kids

Anonymous · Answer

Id say women with children are more stable, not full of crazy unstable ideas about men. Women without are very unrealistic. Want rich men. Hate good guys. Expensive to date. Easy to piss off and get dumped. Women with children will stay put. list goes on...

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No children. You are likely seeing that because the number of childless women in their 30’s is significantly lower than those with … and harder to find. Most in my area have kids. I can think of only two without.

HighValue · Answer

A woman with kids is unappealing to me. A woman in her 30s is unappealing too.

The men that seem interested in them often just use them for sex because they are often easy to get due to limited options.

glennos89 · Answer

The problem with dating a single mom is that you bond not only with her but also her child. Whenever the relationship doesn't last you lose both at the same time but it's though to get over de love you had for the kid

genericname85 · Answer

The overwhelming majority of men aren't attracted to single moms. The only reason some men may flock to single moms is cause they're easier to get laid with.

Shy_Steve · Answer

We're not going to Find a Woman unattractive just because She has kids. But we will probably just think about expenses in the future if we are going to date her.

Mia03 · Answer

I dated single few moms lot of times they have me home watching their kid while they go party. Especially first two times i dump her. Another two girls tried I broke up with them when they tried to same thing.

Anonymous · Answer

Not trying to generalize but I think a lot of men find single moms to be usually “easy”, maybe because of loneliness?

lyrem04 · Answer

I don’t think having children or lack thereof has anything to do with attractiveness

shortster · Answer

I am looking for a woman that doesn't have children, but wants them.

Jay-_- · Answer

Depends if the woman is an amazing woman without children that's still very attractive, now if there's a bad reason for her not having children, BESIDES natural causes, yea it's unattractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the woman, not all of them look the same.

exitseven · Answer

It depends on her circumstances. I would not be interested in raising somebody else's kids.

oldpigg · Answer

Hahaha no, a 30 year old woman is not attractive at all, much less if she has children.

Anonymous · Answer

Flocking is something and comitting to is another. Just like everyone else says.. what do they end up to?

Anonymous · Answer

That’s interesting. Most guys my age avoid women with kids. Maybe it’s an age thing?

DrPepper12 · Answer

Depends on a lot - the kid, her ex, her family, etc

ABC1x1x · Answer

It's most attractive to not have children before you are married.

fish5505_87 · Answer

I never noticed, I don't even really know if I would be that way?

Anonymous · Answer

Why would a man want a woman who has had children with a previous man? It shows she's not good at keeping relationships.

sawno · Answer

Having children is never more attractive

bralesswonder · Answer

Every guy likes a MILF

blackeagle007 · Answer

I can careless either way

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Not necessarily depends on the person

Anonymous · Answer

Ummmmmm... never mind.

jahaims · Answer

Only for simps

yotaman99 · Answer

It honestly depends

MasterKS · Answer

NO kids!

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