Can you ask a girl out if she’s just starting to see someone?

[Anonymous]

Met this girl and we seemed to vibe but she was with this guy and I wasn’t sure if they were dating. But on the way home my friends were talking about how they just started seeing each other

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Only thinking maybe because they don’t seem very close is all but I also look at it this way if there together I can always meet people through them to. Like other girls

[SteveSmith1985]

Probably not. Well I mean you can ask, just be expecting a "no." I wouldn't recommend asking personally. But do whatever you think is best.

The problem is, there is no agreed upon definition of what "seeing each other" means. That could mean they're together. It could mean they've been on a couple of dates and haven't had the talk about being "official" yet. In all of these cases you're gonna get a no.

This really is only possibly going to work, if she has been out on like one date, and doesn't really like the guy all that much. Otherwise you're gonna get a no. The odds that she is at this exact specific stage, and happens to feel unexcited about the guy... are close to zero.

I think you're too late man. Sorry.

[Spencer10]

I think you can as a woman out anytime... its really up to her to say yes or no.

[Abbycado]

Personally, I’d turn you down if I were seeing someone no matter if had just been one date.

[Asker]

But that doesn’t make sense what if you didn’t see them again then the guy that asked you out you passed up for nothing. 1 date your not dating

[Abbycado]

Who says I’m not seeing him again?

[Asker]

Like I’m saying if you’d only been on one date then didn’t see other people and you only went on the one date your cutting yourself short

[slatyb]

Of course. Just ask. Don't inquire about her relationship with someone else.

[In_Trance]

would you try to board a plane when it's moving down the runway?

[Asker]

Free trips a free trip

[EmmaMary]

Just what the hell do you think? smh

[Asker]

If your just hanging out your onto dating so it depends

[Asker]

*not

[StevenMcGarrett]

Sure, all's fair in love and war.