Guys, if a woman wants a relationship, how should she communicate that?

[megzs16]

So many women will start seeing a guy, weeks or months go by, and they start to feel like they want a relationship. Women usually want this to feel more secure because being in a gray zone with a man is just flat out uncomfortable sometimes if she really is into a guy. So many women have no idea how to communicate that they want a relationship with a man. It can feel like we are overthinking things or asking for too much. What's the best way for a woman to approach this conversation with a man? Or do you feel like if a guy wants to be with a girl enough, he would approach this conversation first?

[Finchie40]

She is best to be open and honest to him about what she is looking for to see if he wants the same , if he says yes, then she is best to ask him if he wants to be in a relationship together. If he says No, then say oh well worth a shot lol. Me personally likes when a girl asks me out and she is honest about what she is looking for to me. Especially if we been hanging out and spending time together , I am not really shy when it comes to being interested in a girl , but if she beats me to it , even better 😊

[nawtee_me]

I think this is a good question since guy can really feel the same way as girls do when weeks have gone by and both are still comfortable dating the other. I can tell you that when it reached that point with me, I asked her by saying,” I should have done this sooner and wanted to do it properly, will you be my girlfriend.” Of course she said yes since by this time we both had already used that four letter “L” word. lol. For us we were do comfortable with one another after a few days it was like we had known each other for years.
The thing really is all about communication. If after a few weeks you two are not communicating then that in itself says a lot towards a relationship. And if you two are communicating then it really isn’t that hard to bring up that conversation. Taking it to the next level can be a bit scary but if you know what you want and talk about it helps the other to know what they want as well.

[nawtee_me]

After all, this is the last place anyone wants to be. m.youtube.com/watch

[Anonymous]

The frontal approach. The problem isn't how a woman asks. The problem is women usually ask guys who do not feel that way about them or never have given consideration to that kind of a relationship with them.

I knew this woman who apparently wanted to date me. We went to a ball game with a bunch of friends. We were sitting in the outfield bleachers and I accidentally brushed against her. She recoiled like I'd rubbed something nasty on her. Every advancement she made towards me afterwards got rebuffed. Later, years down the road in casual conversation I told her back then I'd have dated her if she'd been interested. She got mad and said she was and I said her actions didn't match her words. She said more in that one action then she did in anything verbally that followed.

Women like to talk about men friendzoning themselves by not making thier intentions clear. We'll, women do the same. And this was a prime example of that.

[Orion84]

Just tell him.

It's that simple. Guys value straightforward communication. If a woman wants to be in an exclusive relationship, all she has to do is be direct.

"Hey, I've developed feelings for you, and I'd like us to be together."

Boom, done. Woman is happy. Guy is happy. Cuddling and eating off each other's forks shall commence shortly.

[bowenw]

I think it's a fair question to ask guys where they see the relationship going, if anywhere. It's not overthinking to want to know that. I don't think there are any rules as to which person approaches the conversation first. The guy may be afraid of scaring off the girl is he mentions a long-term relationship, so the girl may have to do it.

[StevenMcGarrett]

I think the best thing to do is try to communicate that. Start indirectly by introducing him to your friends as your boyfriend. Then just mention that you are not seeing anyone else because you are so in to him. That is usually the way I knew, rarely was there the "relationship talk."

[jahaims]

Literally like you just did. You use words like a big girl.

[In_Trance]

straight up

[beefcakebradybatson]

A b. j. !!!

[yotaman99]

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