Does Love really happen when you just let go?

[Anonymous]

I've been single a number of years. Not fully my choice. I'm wanting true love and compatability. I've been off and on the dumb apps. Currently off the apps. It's more of a headache & men who just want sex, not a relationship.

My coworker said it happened to her, she let go then met her Finance.. No offense she is tall and a pretty big gal! She found love and soon to be married..💁‍♀️

[Zack-Bann]

No it doesn’t.


When you plant a garden a take care of it, growing plants and flowers of all colors, birds will flock to it


But if your garden is a mud pile with nothing but dead weeds you can stand there all day long with your arms open no bird will land on you just because want it to


In the metaphor the garden is your life:
You need to get it sorted, take care of your physical health, feed your mind with knowledge, improve your home your wardrobe your presentation
Welcome friendships and build a social circle


Once your life is appealing you will have men coming in trying to be a part of it just like birds to a garden


From there you need to make the best choices and welcome in the good man not the bad one


But in every step of the way you need to be proactive. It doesn’t “just happen”


Even your tall coworkers that supposedly let go probably improved her life without realizing she was doing it

[ohsheeT]

Love really happens when you just let go and be your on leader. And love yourself the best way you can. Be come one with yourself the best you can be. Be someone with others helping them to become the best they can be come then become one with this universe then smile every thing will start to fall in place

[NoDecision]

It usually happens when you are not looking for it. Because then you are most likely looking in all the wrong places.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/MaU733Y21ww

[Valdemort]

How is the "no offence... big gal!" part relevant to this?

[Asker]

Because some women don't find love when they are Obese! Most men want a fit women with curves.

[Valdemort]

Every person has their own preferences. No need to mention what someone looks like at their expense. She might just have the type of personality most men want.

[Anonymous]

No. But it has a greater chance of happening when you when you want it enough to suspend all petty expectations that thwart most people. Because when it comes down to it. Most people do not want love. They want thier preconceived expectations of what they believe love is. And that is why they fail. They're simply not ready for it, may never be ready for it.

[Asker]

Exactly 💯 Love is your deepest mirror of all your insecurities and challenges. Love is about growth & evolution. Love is not the intense Love hormones that are released when you have sex either.. most believe its Love by the bonding hormones.

[serious]

No, nothing like that. There are no guarantees or assurances as to how and in what way love can happen.

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out