Would it raise concerns to a man if he finds the woman he's dating has no friends?

[Anpernam]

[SteveSmith1985]

No. That can happen for many reasons. I wouldn't be concerned by that. If there is some reason you don't have friends having to do with you being a shitty person... I'm quite confident I'll figure that out in a short amount of time.

I don't think less of someone as a potential romantic partner if I were to find this out about them.

I might wonder why, but I wouldn't assume it's because you're a bad friend, or a bad person to be with.

It's not an indicator of anything for me. (and I am definitely someone who is looking for concerning things.. and will easily write-someone-off if something makes me thing certain things about a girl--often unfairly).

[wheist9095]

That depends entirely on why you don't have any friends, these days it has become increasingly harder to be social and make time to see people or meet new people.

If you're a naturally introverted or antisocial person and you value your alone time a lot it would be very easy to find yourself spending most of your time alone.

If you do want to make new friends, the easiest way I've seen is to go to social activities or pick up new hobbies that require a bit of physical presence. For example a friend of mine went to a free creative writing event where they had a lovely time and got to meet several new people who shared their interest in writing. Or maybe a hiking group, if you're a more nature or physically inclined person

[Babebytheshore85]

If I were a man I'd be concerned. Why don't you have friends? This is a huge red flag because you'll be clingy, expecting the man to be your everything such as your friend, therapist, a boyfriend. You need to have a life of your own so this isn't good

[Babebytheshore85]

You're 33. So what happened?

[serious]

No, I don't think that should matter at all.

[Anonymous]

Only if she's completely pathetic. Not everyone who has friends has healthy friendships. You can be AWESOME and still have no friends simply because you will not entertain toxic people.

[Ironic_Method]

Not to me, some people are introverts or misanthropic and that's just fine.

[Anonymous]

It should!

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya red flag