Why men talk how they are good at sex at first date? I was on a date with this guy and he couldn't stop bragging about it?

[Anonymous]

I was on a date with the guy and he immediately started to talk about sex.

How he never has problems with getting girls.

That he is sleeping with his friends, only good looking one's,

That he is good at sex etc

[ohsheeT]

Well you really have to thank a guy when he does that.

Because he doesn't really know it, but what he's doing is he's telling you. You really don't want to date him because you're just going to be another one of those girls.

He thought he was bragging, but reality is. He was telling you who he is and what he's all about. So in a way you have to thank him for that. Because If i was a gurl Iwouldn't date a guy like that

[Asker]

Thank you

[ohsheeT]

I thank you. Your question is a good one. And most people don't look at it thevway I answered but it's true. And gut tell on themselves all the time it's just people don't see or hear whats really being said or done

[Spencer10]

Well he did you a favor. You learned fast he is a loser and not worth any more dates.

[Asker]

That's correct

[LauraJ00]

Yeah men who are good at it don’t really need to brag.

[Asker]

Right? I think the same

[OneViewpoint]

That boy was scared to death and desperate to appear as a Playa. Odds are he was not. More likely he had no clue what he was doing.

[slatyb]

The men who do aren't. The men who are don't talk about it, they wait patiently until the woman is ready, and then show her.

[zagor]

If he really was he would likely wait to show you instead of blabbing about it. Sounds like he is trying to convince himself.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because he’s insecure and cocky. He thinks that he needs to brag. Likely seen too much porn.

[Asker]

And then at the end he says that he was on a date with only 3 girls in the last year. After everything that he shared, i was left confused.

[BarryLiverstone]

No reason to be confused. He lacks experience and is insecure. He is worried you will learn the truth and leave

[BarryLiverstone]

How was the sex by the way?

[Asker]

Hahaha we didn't have one. There was insane chemistry between us, but I have no idea what the hell we was thinking.

Talking all the time about sex with other women was supposed to turn me on?

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s what he thought. And imagine that.. all that bragging and he didn’t even have sex with you. Words matter less than actions

[Asker]

Yes, he said as well that women ask him how they are supposed to know that he is good at sex and then he is sending them references from other girls 😂🙈

And then he switched the topic towards me and how I have nice ass.

Very weird date, and he wasn't giving me that vibes the first time we met

[BarryLiverstone]

Weird to compare your ass to them. Ig he was a liar and you can’t trust even that feedback

[Asker]

I think he was desperate to have sex. That's my opinion. After I rejected him his ego was hurt and he never messaged me again but is watching my every story on Instagram

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes not only was he desperate but he still is. Why you haven’t blocked him yet.. ig you like the attention

[Asker]

I like the attention yes hahah

[BarryLiverstone]

Thought so. He must follow the other girls as well. So it’s a competition

[Asker]

He does of course, I am not the only one he follows. We don't even live in the same country, I met him on vacation.

Yeah, whatever. I feel like I am the one who can't get him out of my head 😂😂

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s true. You are the one obsessed with him. Why is that?

[Asker]

I think I like fantasies. I am 31 he is 27. The way we met was cinematic. He is totally immature for me, but the way he looks at me and compliments me, just turns on all my senses. One part of me was dying for him to f me, and other part of me just closed everything because I know it's wrong.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty, that actually kinda makes sense. You felt turned on by his attention and you wanna repeat that feeling. And I know why you wanted him to f you

[Asker]

Yep. That's true. Correct 🙈

[Asker]

Why? Haha

[BarryLiverstone]

Ha ha bet you would like to know

[Asker]

Of course hahah

[Asker]

So you are going to tell me or not haha, you have been reading me pretty well😁

[BarryLiverstone]

Go ahead and follow me , I’ll fill you in

[Asker]

Okay, done

[PaleDale]

Lol not this one. I think couples should learn from each other

[Asker]

Learn what?

[PaleDale]

Learn that guys often don't have a clue and have a little humility so they take the time to find out what a partner is into

[Babebytheshore85]

Because he doesn't like you. Duh

[SolitarySolace]

You’re generalizing all men.

[Asker]

I am not. I talk about this specific types of men. Chill

[SolitarySolace]

You can’t open with “why men…” and then pretend you’re talking about a specific type after getting called out. That’s not how language works. If you genuinely meant some men, say that from the start. Otherwise, you’re just smuggling in a generalization and playing innocent when it’s pointed out. This kind of casual stereotyping is exactly why conversations about men’s experiences get shut down or dismissed—because the second we speak up, we’re told to “chill.”

– Eva ❤️

[Asker]

I think we all know not every men is the same. I love and respect men. I was not trying to generalize, you are just projecting and this has nothing to do with me and this is why I told you to chill

[SolitarySolace]

You can say you ‘love and respect men,’ but actions speak louder than claims. Starting with ‘why men’ was a generalization—that’s not projection, that’s plain language. If you didn’t mean all men, you should’ve said so. Telling someone to ‘chill’ instead of owning your words only proves the point. Everyone now knows you generalized regardless of whether you mean to or not. Have the day you deserve

[Asker]

You are funny

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you need to date higher quality men.

[Wise4myage]

That's a red flag, so get rid of that loser.

[Asker]

I did. I was attracted to him physically but his behavior was just turn off. Deep down he is insecure and very easily triggered

[Wise4myage]

Awesome! He's probably lying anyway.

[Heusus]

Bc tht man is a real and tuff man

[Asker]

You are too young to be here