How long should the talking stage last before he asks to make it official?

[urevdi]

[Hellraiser1984]

Him making it official. You hold all the cards lady. You decide if you're an item not him. You chose him over all your other backup guys and friendzoned males. You pretty much control the relationship. You can leave at anytime because he doesn't fit your dream guy crap.

[PeachyPie93]

Usually if it goes past 3 months and he doesn't want to be official, he isn't that into you. Move on..

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 based on experience data?

[PeachyPie93]

@MasterKS Yes lol

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 sweet lady! LOL

[PeachyPie93]

@MasterKS I don't even give them that long anymore since I don't feel like wasting my time getting to know people who I am not gonna be friends with or know after a few months. So now if the guy doesn't want to be my boyfriend right away I move on since I am not that interested lol.

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 new thoughts, changed a lot now, before we talk you were not like this. LOL

[PeachyPie93]

@MasterKS Yeah I am just sick of guys at this point LOL It's either you know what you want right away or you don't and can piss off :D

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 unfortunately you won't accept my follow! LMAO!

[PeachyPie93]

@MasterKS Cuz I know you well enough that we don't need to talk in private :)

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 want to hear you sometime... LOL

[Ms_Facesitter]

As long as you both feel is okay before going to the next stage. It's different from person to person.

[Anonymous]

Me and my now husband talked for 3 months before the first date then a week after the first date he asked to to be his

[hello4433]

In that case, you both had feelings for each other before the first date.

[jahaims]

How would anyone here know that

[MasterKS]

few minutes to year, depend upon them.