Do I go all out or not?

[jimster2929]

Hi I have never really been popular with girls. But iv lost loads of weight and found myself chatting to 2 girls at the same, neither want a relationship, but want tooo meet :) 1s 24 and the others 31 and a neighbour.. I been for coffee with the neighbour before! They have both messaged me to meet up and watch a film.. do I meet them both and go with the flow or pick 1? 🤔

[SteveSmith1985]

If neither of them want a relationship, but are interested (seem interested), then that means they're interested in something more casual. Which means, there is no problem seeing both of them (since neither one of them is under the assumption that you're exclusive. They are free to see other guys as well).

You might as well go for it. There's nothing to lose. It's just going to be short-term fun with no commitment or expectation.

[PeachyPie93]

Since neither want a relationship you might as well play them both then pick your favourite lol

[jimster2929]

Yehhh that's absolutely true, I feel like it's time to make up for lost time if you get me and have some fun 😝

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah they aren't being serious, so there's foul in playing with them..

[jimster2929]

Thank you.. ones back tonight and I'm meeting the other next Saturday😝💯 excited, thank you

[Nikki1989]

You can try to be a winner, or you can be a loser. Pick your lane and go for it.

[jimster2929]

Think I'm going to try and be a winner this time round😝 I was in a similar situation when I was younger, picked someone and then things went wrong, missed out on both🙈