Are single parents deal breakers for you?

[Anonymous]

[trumpetplayerforlife]

No i dated plenty of guys with kids

[HawkPerception]

Currently, yes. I think the only time I'd consider dating a single parent is if I were one myself.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t mind taking care of a child but I would have difficulty believing in his loyalty to me, if he abandoned the mother of his children after she had his kids.

[zagor]

I know at least two cases where the woman took off and left the guy with kids.

[beenherebefore]

I never really thought about it. Then I met my now Partner who has a 10 year old son, it didn’t bother me then and doesn’t bother me now but his son lives abroad so is not like he has to make time for him while he’s with me, I’m sure if we lived in the same country this would have some impact on our relationship.

[PeachyPie93]

Not really. It depends on the amount of kids and why he and his kids mom broke up..
I talked to this really nice single dad before and he was well off but he had 5 fucking kids and they were all 10 and under.. that's just too many lol

[MasterKS]

@PeachyPie93 big production company.

[PeachyPie93]

@MasterKS Yeah for sure. I don't even want to have 5 of my own demon spawns, let alone have 5 of someone else's mixture.

[Zack-Bann]

For long term commitments yes


I’m not ready to be a father figure to a kid and she can tell me that she doesn’t need that but the truth is if I’m in her life I’m in the kid (s) life


For short term fun I have absolutely no objections.
She’s still an adult free to have some adult fun in her life and I respect that

[SeekerOfTruth007]

Yup. I mean, eevn if I wasn't medically disabled and even if I was a millionaire, it would be a deal breaker. I'm not dealing with her X coming to visit every other weekend. That's BS.

[Anonymous]

for most young people, being a single parent is a deal breaker. if the person is older, they might be more open to it. If find that men typically are more ok with single moms than women are with single dads.

[exitseven]

When I was younger I would never even consider dating somebody with a kid. Now that I am older I would be okay with it if the kids were older.

[Kelley1]

When you were young, you had options. As an old man, you no longer have options would have to settle.

[exitseven]

@Kelley1 A toddler takes up a lot of time and I was not interested in raising another man's kid. If her kids were older like high school age and more autonomous I think it would be okay.

[itsannalee]

Yes, I don’t want go involved in drama with baby’s momma.

[LiamJHayden]

Depends. There is a world of difference between a self-sufficient widow and a never married on assistance with four baby daddies.

[MrChinaski]

No. You would want to be comfortable with the financials. But if that is okay... a single mother is as attractive as any other woman of her age.

[Communicationisking]

No, I have been one so it would be hypercritical for me to say otherwise

[BDRick]

No. if it came down to it, I would be a good stepfather.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, her having kids is a dealbreaker without exception.

[Anonymous]

I don’t want someone with a kid , just a personal preference

[zagor]

Not as a strict rule, but it would be a consideration.

[MangakaJ96]

A single mom isn’t inherently a dealbreaker for me, so I’m open to it.

[Anonymous]

Not a deal breaker per se. But they are generally a🚩. The burden is on her to prove she is not the staus quo.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. Single mothers are only good for hitting and quitting 🤷‍♂️

[Kelley1]

A single mother has undesirable baggage, and you will always be last. However, because they are less desirable, their sexual market value is lower. Therefore, you can marry a prettier single mom and, for many men, that offsets the disadvantages.

[Jeff51]

Shouldn't be. Part of life.

[DellBell]

Not for me anyway

[Renegade_Sailor]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Duh.

[ballweevil]

most of the times