Right now, I found a man to have kids with. We aren't in a romantic relationship. I haven't had any luck with romance through my years. Its always been my life long dream to become a mother. But there are just a few problems... the man that I"m having kids with is a great man, great father, great son, amazing family man. But he is just not very smart, not successful, doesn't make enough money to support a family. On the other hand, I make well over 100k so it is quite obvious that I will be the breadwinner.
My concern is about having kids with a man without a high IQ. He isn't academically gifted. Neither am I. We both have always been very average students in school. Both of us are college are educated. We both had our own set of failures in life and school. We were always satisfactory as students, never great students. We were always very average, but not bright.
As you might now be aware of: automation is taking over unskilled jobs: Fast food jobs, low wage jobs are disappearing... those who are incompetent or cannot succeed in school will only starve to death. Our society is depleting unskilled labor and moving on to skilled labor: designing robots and developing AI. Soon it might only be only intelligent people being able to eat and live. I know this will be part of my children's future.
I don't want to spend my older years worrying myself to death about my child's inability to survive the world. Today, the masters degree is the new bachelors degree. The bachelors degree is the new high school diploma. I don't see this getting any better 20 years from now. And it is what frightens me.
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