Hot middle class guy or average looking rich guy?

Question

im getting married and my man he's ok looking (to others) but rich. I am also soon to be rich. I think he's hot just have been told by everyone that I am so out of his league. I like he's rich and can provide for me and think he's good looking. But I have been told by so many people he's ok. He has a receding hair line (which he wants to fix in turkey), he's 5' 8" (not the 6' standard for some girls), and he's darker complexion (people in my culture think the whiter, the more beautiful) I think I made the right decision but then people being mean about how he looks makes me sad.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

A lot of people have poor morals and values, insanely high expectations, and a warped sense of reality. Plus, if he was a really hot guy that every woman found super attractive, chances are neither you nor any other woman would have gotten him, because he'd have unlimited opportunities with women and would be happily playing the field.

If this man treats you well, you would be insane to leave him or even think less of him because he doesn't have soap-opera looks. Don't let other people - usually people who have little to show for themselves - destroy your happiness. Many, MANY people love nothing more than to destroy someone else's happiness so that they can feel just a bit less miserable themselves for 5 minutes. The thing is, they can't destroy your happiness unless you let them, so don't. You know what you've got, so don't listen to those who would be happy to see you end up with much less than what you've got.

Danny_dan92 · Accepted Answer

You do what you want. However you’re engaged… and you say you’re getting married.

I would hope he was smart and got a prenup so that way you cannot just grab the bag and run. Because that’s messed up.

Nobody forced you to date/marry a guy you found unattractive. Why? Because he’s rich? Pfff gtfo here

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

If you’re going to be rich it shouldn’t matter to you that he has a lot of money since you have your own money. But that being said, if you think he’s good looking and you love him and he makes you feel safe and cared for, that’s all that matters.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's not about money or how they look it others it's about how you love them and can't imagine life without that person

Anonymous · Answer

That's kind of a skewed question. Was he avg. looking before or after you found out he was rich. Because finding out a guy is rich automatically increases a guys attractiveness to a woman. And we need to know whether he became avg. Or if he looks avg. Now because of it.

bowenw · Answer

Don't worry about what anyone thinks about his appearance but you. Hopefully he will make you happy which is the most important thing in a marriage.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I choose the person that I find very attractive and want to spend everyday with. Fortunately she also makes good money, but that's not a factor as to why I'm with her.