Is a 10 year age difference a problem?

[Anonymous]

Is it normal to date someone who is ten years older than you? Would you do it and why?

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong w that. I know some people are going to say well they’d have nothing in common. Which may be true but if there’s two of you, meaning you have everything in common. The exact opposite only on gender, then one of you is useless. My girl is 8 years older than me. We didn’t have a lot in common. But I became interested in a lot of things she was interested in. She did the same. So it helped to open both our eyes to new things. Let’s face it people will say what’s he going to talk to her about? They don’t always need to have intellectual talks. Just talking in general about how her day was. Do you want to go to this nice restaurant? How’s your family? Just because he owns a company doesn’t mean he can’t have conversations w her outside of that. If she’s mature enough as is he, but both can still be kids at heart then that’s fine. You don’t always have to have everything in common. Introduce each other to things you both like that maybe the other person has never done, plus find new things together that you do like.

[Asker]

That's such a sincere answer! Thank you... Well actually what made me interested in him at the first place was our common interests. At first our friendship was based on talking about the books we both liked, sharing music, poetry, talking about politics and history. Our ability of having enjoyable conversations made us friends actually. And nowadays he is teaching me their traditional dances every Sunday for one hour. I met his friends and they liked me they even started to make plans with me even when he was not able to join

[Opinion Owner]

So go w it. Nothing wrong w that. So long as both of you make it known up front what you’re looking for.

[ohsheeT]

I do not see a problem in that And I would date that person just to hear All the negative people say whatever they have to say And then plus just to hear me. Say my middle finger in the air and walk

Because it's none of their business. It's none of their business.. This is your life if you want to do it then do it In life

In life we come across opportunities all the time. You have to experience The things that you can learn from it are prices. Probably because nobody your age is going to treat you the same as an older man. And that's all positive

But this is your life You don't have to ask permission Just be wise be smart Listen Because the wisdom that you can gain is priceless.

[DannyUk2017]

Age is Just A Number! If you're over 18, the problem is..."other might see you" as a Woman that got with an older man for his wealth, knowing that soon he will be "gone"...🤷‍♂️

[integrale77]

So long as your both legal age it's fine one of my managers was 40 with a girlfriend aged 20.
I'm 48 and my fiancé is 40 who is 10 times more mature and logical than my ex who is 43 now

[Tarifa]

It may be when you're 16 and he is 26. Mainly due to mentality differences. It sure won't be when you get a bit older, say 25 and 35.

[Asker]

I'm 21 and he is 31

[Tarifa]

If it works for you, why not? I don't like to give too many details here, but you can send me a DM if you want to.

[Asker]

I just followed you, thanks!

[Tarifa]

Same here.

[slatyb]

Yes, but... In my experience the 30-ish men who hit on women 18-21 are bad news.

[Asker]

Unfortunately he doesn't hit on me, I'm not even sure if he is aware of my interest 😔😂

[OneViewpoint]

Not a problem for me. Is it a problem for you?

[Danny_dan92]

It will be if he gets ED long before you hit menopause

[jahaims]

35 and 45 is fine. 20 and 30 is gross. Big gap in maturity

[hello4433]

Mostly yes, cause they both have different mentality

[HusamRocks]

Nope Age is not a problem at all

[exitseven]

I always felt that ten years was the limit.

[In_Trance]

That depends what your age is

[Asker]

I'm 21 and he is 31

[Vegasrunner]

Women yes, not so much for men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah leave him alone

[Asker]

Why?

[chocolatetwopointo]

BC he's 10 YEARS OLDER THAN U U FUCKING IDIOT. why else retard?

[Asker]

You are such a teenager

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? and ur point is?

[Asker]

You are underage, in your case this preference of yours makes sense and actually I'm happy to see you think that way. But hopefully you will learn how to be kind as you grow up, have a bright day✨

[chocolatetwopointo]

no! leave him alone and get someone ur own age bitch.