What are effective ways other than cold in person approaches for men to meet women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Gwendoline]

Church. Bowling alleys. College. Dinner parties. Clubs. The trick is not be your own. Often couples friends will set a guy up with a girl they know. They are able to vouch for him to her and they know maybe if she's the kinda girl he likes.

With these cold approaches the kind of girl that responds to that is not a respectable woman you want. Girls in tinder have too many choices and all get sold on the same douching guys who treat them bad.

[Vegasrunner]

@gwendoline Those are some interesting ones, but they highlight why guys shouldn't take advice from women. Church girls are crazy, Bowling alleys to much going on and most people go in groups, terrible place to pull women, College good but general, where specifically in college? Dinner Parties, not applicable, single men don't get invited to dinner parties. Clubs, are good place. Never get set up from a couple. Dating sites are more for numbers.

[Gwendoline]

Single men do get invited to dinner parties to be introduced to a single woman they want to meet. Anyway you are looking for something quick but in reality you need to be around women so they can get to know you and decide on if you are worth dating but that takes time. Even if a woman isn't going to date you she may recommend you to a friend.

[Vegasrunner]

@gwendoline Not really, if he's randomly getting invited to a dinner party that means he struggles w/ women. Yes for men, women need to be quick, low investment and volume. They're simply a numbers game. The more you talk to the more likely you are to score. You're looking at it from a female lens, which makes sense, but isn't going to have allow guys to have actual success w/ women. One of the biggest mistakes a guy can make is getting "recommended" to a friend of a girl that rejections him. Women have a hive mindset so if the first girl rejected him, the friend isn't going to see him as HV. Puts a man in an odd situation, where he's looking to attract a woman using a scarcity mindset.

[BonzoInBitburg]

When I was single I constantly had friends try to set me up with their single friends. But nothing is more effective than a cold approach

[Jeff51]

Dating sites. Chatsites

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 Dating sites have a much lower success rate for men than cold approaches

[Jeff51]

Don't know. I didn't get hooked up by sites

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 Then why give it as an option?

[Jeff51]

I had flings on chatsites. Your here at this site, so are you trying to get a girl here? I think lot of guys try to hit on women at any of these sites. I wasn't born yesterday like half the people here on gag.

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 Why would you believe this was a site to get women? The question asks what is an effective way.

[Jeff51]

Im not after women but this is kinda a go to place like chatsites

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 Doubtful, I would guess very low percentage of men are having success pulling women off a platform like this. Why makes you think they are have success on this platform?

[Jeff51]

This as you say platform is no different than any other. Once you pm people and they reply then it can happen

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 I think I see your confusion, not really. A site like this is far different than a reputable dating site, at least when it comes to success rate for men. Sounds like you're using the metrics from dating sites and attributing it to any platform that allows you to send a DM. When it comes to attracting women, few if any will get them from here.

[Jeff51]

Personally I can care less. If people stay single or not. Ppls problems are not mine.

[Vegasrunner]

@Jeff51 you lost me. What does that have to do with the question?