Clubs, hobby type places. Gyms are not the best as you say as like people are there to work out, but there are some people who are there to check out so.. maybe you could. I had a gym stalker once, she worked in the same building as me and i had no idea who she was but she kept meeting me in the stairs and saying she saw me at the gym... it can sound cool "oh this girl digs me" but the reality is its creepy as fuck when it happens to you, so turn that around and thats how women feel... so gotta think like where would be a natural place to meet. Even a bus stop (if you catch that bus often mind, dont just hang about bus stops)... on a train you share a seat with the person. Unlikely to end in a relationship but maybe a friend
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I have been "cold approached" in so many places and situations it is easier to just say everywhere any time than to try to list them, I will say the most annoying ones or the ones I cut off the fastest are when I am busy or concentrating on something, the ones where the conversations go the longest is when I am just hanging out for example with friends at a bar , or waiting and can't do anything while I wait, for example after placing an order at Starbucks. Trader Joe can go either way it depends if I am in a hurry or not. JMO good luck!
I guess nightclubs are a good place, you don’t have to ask a woman out, just ask her to dance! Other than that, I would say take night classes in things like photography or pottery, or maybe a basic auto maintenance. Something that women would be interested in. But NEVER ask a woman out on the first night, that’s just creepy. Wait until she at least knows who you are a bit and just invite her for some coffee and then to maybe take some pictures at the park across the street. Incorporate your common interest in the “ask-out”. Good luck.
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That's bs. Gym and libraries are way better than clubs. It depends on your personality, but it also depends on fate. You could walk into the libarary tomorow, and see an attractive female who looks interested in you, but you could go in there 100 times after tomorow and never find another female who looks interested. Same goes for libraries. The thing with people is that they like familiarity, so if you go to the same gym, and library and see the same people repeatedly, then it's easier to approach them. If you walk into a bar, and never seen those females, then it's going to be hard, because they don't know you from howard the coward. Any place can be good to approach but it depends on the body language of that person. You could approach someone at a funeral if she's with it. Problem with pua is that they don't read the room. I know a lot of pua who will do nothing when women are giving them signals. Instead, they approach women who show no indication of interest. You can see why they're doomed for failure.
Spot what she's doing and take an interest. Open up with a comment about that and not her. Look for places where people naturally interact.
In the snow. :p
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