Need advice? How can I stop feeling like this?

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How can I get over the feeling that no guys want me? I’m still a virgin at 19, my body is average—nothing special—and I’ve never kissed a guy. I feel undesirable and weird compared to other girls my age.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

O k there's one way you can do this. But you kinda have to be honest. In a lot of way or Look at it as a fantasy. That's the way that I would try to get through it is you have to experience it whether it be in real life or words

Word.
S can take you right there to that moment as if it was real life

I like to role play and i have had girls tell me That a guy has never kissed them. They have never dated. They don't have any idea what it even feels like and they're craving it.

And once they tell me this it's like ok well So tell me what you want You're pretty honest and open about it. They want to experience all of it So I will make up a scenario and we We start from there. But I have girls tell me When we are doing this they have never ever felt anything like that Before in their life And they tell me that every word was just Taking over their whole body. And when finished , they want to know how I did that because they could actually feel everything

And once you go through that a couple times Or a few times you have the confidence And not be shy try to experience it

And really that's what you need. You just need that little bit of a confidence to see what it's like to feel what it's like to allow yourself to feel what it's like

But by role playing it sometimes it makes it easier To experience it online first, then in real life.
It's actually a really beautiful thing I would just enjoy that

And I definitely wouldn't say try that because I have got that compliments on how great it was And what they learned when they role played at first

DonaldDarko · Accepted Answer

No idea, I'm from southern Ca, I grew up there. Plenty of women paid attention to me but they were all gross thots. I just ignored them so I ended up about like you. The point is maybe it's not worth it and you're better off where you are. I know I am.

Vevv123 · Accepted Answer

Did you know models usually get picked because they’re different, or “weird”. It all just depends on your perspective. You’re still young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Focus on your personal growth, whether that be academically, physically, or emotional. This will keep you busy and help you feel better about yourself.

Mon1to · Accepted Answer

nothing weird, it's relatable  maybe try to find more hobbies?

Berethor · Answer

Even if your looks are average, the fact that you are still a virgin gives you a lot of points.

Pterodon · Answer

You’re still a teenager. I met a 29 year old virgin on this very site sometime in 2016 I think. We had a very serious four year relationship and I fell madly in love with her and begged her to marry me. She didn’t feel quite as in love with me as I was her and she ended it

Anonymous · Answer

Be realizing that most women that are with men don't want them either. Most people that you see "paired up" and are claiming to be happy, aren't. And most of them are just waiting for something better to come along.

So don't trip. You aren't missing out on anything really. Believe me.

melnc · Answer

Your worth isn’t defined by what you haven’t experienced, but by the values you hold. Choosing to wait doesn’t make you a loser

Panthero80 · Answer

A lot of people your age are still virgins; they just don't talk about it. Don't be so hard on yourself.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Has a guy ever asked you out?

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

get a job, it’ll keep u busy

MasterKS · Answer

casual sex exist!!

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