How do I stop feeling like this?

[Anonymous]

I’ve recently turned 22 and all through my teen years I never really cared about dating because I was always bullied in school for being fat and ugly so I just assumed that I’ll stay single forever.

I’ve exercised, I’m not obese but anyway there’s this guy at my job who likes me and I like him too but he haven’t asked me out because he knows my brother and he thinks we might go through a bad breakup but my brother told us he’s fine with us dating.

I would ask him out myself but I feel like he would reject me anyway. I’ve never been in a relationship before and I do wanna experience intimacy and stuff but I think if he likes me enough, he should ask me out.

Ever since I’ve turned 22, it’s actually started to bother me how a lot of my peers been on dates, had sex etc. and I haven’t yet. And I don’t want just sex, I want a relationship too but I know there’s people older than me that’s going through the same thing, but I don't know what to do.

Should I move on from him? I’m between wanting to date and not wanting to only because I hear so many people getting cheated on or abused by their S/O and it makes me lose hope and that it’ll happen to me too. I know I shouldn’t worry about something like this but I feel like I’m not good enough for anyone, even if they do like me.

[Anonymous]

You got bullied for being fat in high school I can totally relate to this.

I myself was fat and other kids used to call me names and girls doesn't used to give me much attention back then.

I started gym and exercised crazy, changed my deit and got committed to get in good shape after a hard work of 3 years today I'm in good shape.

I just want to say it's really possible to be in good shape if you're committed to it. And all you need is discipline and magic begins to happen when you take action instead of complaining about your problem and asking for suggestions from the strangers on the internet.

Here are some tips that might help you. 1. Start feeling confident about yourself. Practice positive affirmations. ( It might sound silly but it really works, trust me! )2. Meditate, keep your mind calm and relaxed.3. Start taking action, hit gym and start working out. 4. Try keto diet, it's really helpful. ( To learn more about keto google about it, you'll get most of the relevant information that you need. ) 5. Take good quality supplement. Those really helps I took some to boost my metabolism one supplement I'd suggest you is this https://bit. ly/33D1SG3 Okinawa flat belly I hope it really helps.

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[Truthatanycost]

'I feel like I’m not good enough for anyone, even if they do like me. '

Your priority needs to be this^^ If you do not learn to love yourself, then you will simply attract people that cannot love you.

[Chillguy95]

Your always going to miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Girl go be courageous and go ask that boy out. Worst that can happen is no…

[Matthew2222]

Lots of guys like chubby girls, go for it.