I'm not able to find what I want, what should I do about the things I can't simply make myself?

[Anonymous]

I'm an engineer, developer, and artist.
Its common place that I can usually never find what I want when it comes to products, so I aim to create and supply them myself.

There is a very long list of these products.
Clothing, entertainment, electronics, collectables, appliances, housing, etc.

I'm quite picky, but I'm also very creative. With enough time and money I can make just about anything.

But a woman who I can relate to and fall in love with?
Well I can't exactly build that...

I hate how hard it is to find a girlfriend.
Not to be confused with getting attention or offers from atttractive women, I get that all the time, but its always mind numbing or irritating women, never one who makes me laugh, stimulates my drive to learn, or challenges me to improve.

I can't engineer my way out of companionship scarcity, and it makes me feel like I failed life somehow. Like I'm just not thinking about it hard enough.

Maybe make a free dating site? No.. the server space pricing alone would astronomical..

I need ideas, but I've seen how most people answer things on this site.
I would really appreciate answers with constructive thought put into them.
I know most of you really just like to sit there and argue over semantics or values or opinions, but put yourself in my shoes for a moment.

If you've ever felt like just so much as even finding a match (not even dating them, just the act of locating them at all), is harder than winning at a casino or lottery, You'll understand my problem.

What are effective ways to narrow down my search.
I don't even want advice on what to do after finding her.

I just want a way to make searching faster and easier.

[HelpfulGirlll]

Keep looking, don't settle.

[Fanfare690]

Hobbies?

[Asker]

Competative and Co-op gaming.
Drawing/Animating.
Building and painting custom Gunplas.
Writing.
Composing music/Playing instruments.
Breeding and raising exotic pets.
Phylogenetics and biology research.
Watching cartoons/anime and Science Fiction/Fantasy movies.
Reading comics/manga.
Making new recipes and cooking.

[Asker]

Also building electronics and making games, books and toys, but thats job stuff, not just hobbies.

[Asker]

I'm also into decorative architecture and have been planning out blueprints to a custom house I'm going to build once I'm satisfied with the plans and have enough money to do so.

[Asker]

And lastly I like making custom cosplay outfits.

[Fanfare690]

I said hobbies because usually people find their other half that way

[Asker]

As you can see most of my hobbies aren't social.
The only real social one is gaming, and I really like very difficult games, and unfortunately those are not very popular (especially with women).

The best games out there on average have about 200 to 1000 players at any time. Not exactly huge numbers, and 90% of those players are men.

[Fanfare690]

I say start doing something more social. Step out of your comfort zone

[Asker]

No point to doing that. I don't enjoy those activities and would only meet women who do enjoy them there. Such a woman wouldn't be someone I'd want to be with, as it would just lead to a breakup.

[Fanfare690]

Welp good luck