Guys, Guy doesn’t make plans to take me out. just wants to come over have sex. I’ve made it clear I’m looking for a relationship. What to do?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been seeing each other a month. I felt like I was forcing him to take me out. We went out and it was fine but I want him to just normally understand we go out sometimes and he should take me out. He asked if we were using my car. Why would I drive us out?

[RespectfulGuy]

A calculative guy. He's wondering if he drives (and pays), what will he get in return?

And you're calculative too. But you have better reasons to keep your clothes on.

Bottom line: better communication needed.

Will he be more generous if he's sure that he'll get what he wants after "inventment"?

Yet again, is such a spirit love?

If you don't feel loved, then I suggest move on before more feelings formed.

Look for someone who's unselfish with you and you can be unselfish with. Then with some degree of lust (aka first love), you may find your guy.

Both of you should think with your heads above, not just below.

[ohsheeT]

That's sucks. But you have to tell him just like you told us... You will keep doing what he's doing until you explain to him your rules tell him what it makes you feel like and what it feels like

[Fireguy17]

tell him you have moved on and go find someone who is also looking for a relationship.
You are allowing that to keep happening by continually having sex with him.
It is just time to say enough is enough, nothing will change and tell him to move on, and don't fall for his oh i'm sorry etc.
Why should he care, he is getting laid.

[melnc]

If he’s not matching your energy, he’s wasting your time. He's treating you like fast food.

[jahaims]

Be with someone who wants you. You are how old and can't figure that out

[In_Trance]

You keep your clothes on

[Pterodon]

The obvious answer is stop fucking him

[Anonymous]

Where's the problem?

[Yellovv]

Do you mean you don't want sex?

[slatyb]

Stop seeing him.

[wkhan_87]

He is selfish