Is it even worth going up to a girl and speaking to her?

[Anonymous]

I never really went up and spoke to random girls. I think it’s too far fetched, even if you’re tall and relatively good looking - most men are just invisible. Not to mention we are just often hated for going up and may even be disrespected for doing so or not even treated like a human being.

It’s still worth going up to speak to a girl

It’s just not worth it

[Screenwriter]

Sounds like you're struggling with low self-esteem.

Look, if a particular woman doesn't want to speak to you, that's one woman. Try another. And, so what if 10 women don't speak to you because they're with someone, aren't interested, you're not their type.

There are 50 reasons why a woman would not be interested in talking to you because you approached them on Wednesday, June 25. NONE OF THEM HAVE MUCH TO DO WITH YOU!

Try going to places where people are convivial and there's lots of talking going on. There are upscale bars where this occurs on a Friday or Saturday evening. If bars aren't your speed, look up Meetups that cater to hobbies you're interested in.

Talking about the hobby you're there for, volleyball, sailing, touch or flag football, soccer, frisbee or competitive frisbee is an easy icebreaker. There are even dating Meetups, where everyone's there simply to talk to and get to know someone else.

Most women are looking to connect just as you are. Don't be discouraged and negative. Be open and positive. That's the best way to meet all kinds of people.
And developing new friends is a sure way to meet more friends.

[Nikki1989]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Why would you want to speak to random girls at all? Just be normal

Talk to people in the context of gatherings, like school, work, friends, activities. That's the usual method since forever, it works !

[Zack-Bann]

If you’re a human being interacting with another human being it’s worth it


People complicate these things when they are fairly simple

[OneViewpoint]

Man grow a pair and just go say hi. Expect nothing. Don't overstay. Get in. A few moments of banter. Get out. Keep doing that until it comes naturally and easily.

[LazerBean]

It just depends on the male. For some males it is, and for some males it is not. You would probably fall into the latter group.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's necessary. Wirth it? That is up to you. But if a woman is truly interested she WILL come up to you.