I’ve been on multiple dates with this girl (28) and I’m having a hard time understanding what she wants?

[Pixel12997]

This girl and I started talking two months ago we have been on multiple fantastic dates and I felt like we really connected on all of them but the Third date we went on she brought up that she felt like she should kiss me but we really should get to know each other on a deeper level before that and she assured she wasn’t playing games or anything so I agreed and for two weeks we continued to talk and I expressed how I wanted a exclusive relationship so we can get to know each other on a deeper level to build that foundation and she said she really didn’t want to put labels on things yet I got divorced 5 months ago and she just got out of a 2 year long relationship 6 months ago she also brought up that we’re in the same boat as each other and she wants to make sure that’s what she wants and also me but understands if I would want to step away to pursue someone else which i made the decisions not to and I also expressed to her that this is what I want but every time I asked to meet up And get dinner or lunch after that she always seemed busy or just random things would come up my buddy uses the same dating app we meet on and he sent me a screenshot of her profile still active also which is okay because no commitment yet to each other but it still kinda hurt I looked past it and i keep talking to her I also sent flowers to where she worked on Wednesday as a nice surprise and we went out to dinner Friday and I got the kiss goodbye and we sat and talked for a few minutes before we went our separate ways I want a relationship with this girl but I don’t know if she’s playing games with me or not!

[DishLady]

She's saying that if you're going to date exclusively, STOP NOW for a beat, see if you want to date someone else, then if you're still into HER continue on the exclusivity path. She's saying don't trap yourself after you've both already experienced a long relationship that failed. She's saying she doesn't want to go through the same heartache she had before.

(You should ASK HER to be sure.)

[KylieKitten]

This is hard to read as there is no punctuation at all. You could always ask her what she wants out of this.

[OneViewpoint]

She's not ready to commit to you. For whatever reason. She has doubts. Not surprising. You've been on a few dates and you're asking for exclusivity after being divorced 5 months ago. You're moving a little too fast. And maybe she's getting lot's of action on that dating app and sifting through her options.

[Zack-Bann]

You’re letting her dictate tempo and take the lead
Girls are rarely good at that


Just take over
Seduce her
gentle but firmly make a move
Show her that she can let go and fall into your arms


Most girls want that even if they don’t ever explicitly say it

[slatyb]

If you don't know at this point, then you are wasting your time. Find a woman who knows what she wants and clearly expresses it.

[Anonymous]

Try using grammar. This is painful to read.

[Anonymous]

Tl;dr?

[Pixel12997]

What