Should an unattractive guy physically with an assymetrical face avoid approaching women?

[John_Naso]

I am not a physically attractive guy. Although I am kinda fit ( 5'11", 160 lbs) and i always try to have a better body with exercise and do drinking, drugs and for a couple of days no known sugar as well as limiting to the absolute the best of my ability processed foods.

Also i have a head full of hair that I try to style as i can. I am hally because I used to have trichotillomania and I stopped it so new hair grew back.

My biggest flaw is my unattractive face and especially my asseyrical eyes that one has a ptosis and makes my face fully unattractive.

Pls do not provide me with answers like: " Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". This is wishful thinking disgiused as wisdom.

So I would love to hear your thoughts.

Yes ! He should avoid trying to find a partner !

No ! He shouldn't give up !

[Zack-Bann]

what’s the alternative?
Fucking off to live in a desert as a hermit because your face is not symmetrical?


I always wonder when people ask the question
“Should I try dating”


It’s not a yes or no question.
You either try or you live by yourself


The question is “do I want someone in my life or not”


If yes. Then you should try dating even if a land mine chopped half of your head


You’re a tall (ish) fit guy.
Get a good haircut.
Grow a beard get it trimmed and faded to add symmetry to your face
Get some glasses to adjust the look of the eyes (you don’t have to need them they can be blue light glasses just for show)


And boom you’re as attractive as any other well groomed man out there


You’re right beauty isn’t so subjective that anyone can do anything
There are standards


But the flexibility is huge


I had this old classmate who got engaged recently.
He’s the ugliest motherfucker I’ve ever laid my eyes on
His fiancé: gorgeous.


And no he’s not rich. I know his financial situation and it’s average at best

[HawkPerception]

Either that or condemn yourself to a life of being alone. Not everyone judges someone at face value.

[Nikki1989]

No, but he should stop being so damn insecure and immature.

[John_Naso]

I accept the charge of insecure. But I am not immature. It is the truth that looks help you (or hinder you) in every enedeavor of your life not just attraction of partners

[Abbycado]

Looks are subjective

[John_Naso]

They are not. There are measurable physical characteristics of attractiveness shaped by first biology and then culture and media.

[Abbycado]

Lmfao XD. How pathetic.

[John_Naso]

What's pathetic about it?

[Abbycado]

People come on this site with their mind set and then as people to convince them otherwise when they won’t accept another opinion. Question muted. Fuckwit.

[John_Naso]

But you didn't support any of your claims... You had one claim and when I supported mine with further justification, you said I am pathetic !!

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Yes, he should. Absolutely.

I won't waste mine and your time trying to convince you otherwise.

[Godihateyou]

Everyone in America should avoid Approaching American women. This is why we are going abroad to find live in record numbers

[Gaylordslav]

You must realize that only 4/10 men reproduce, that means maybe 6s but mainly 7-9 out of tens. The rest of died from war or plague. Our purpose isn't to reproduce but serve them