What is your biggest turnoff in a man in the early and late stages of dating?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Well I’m not a woman or gay but I can give you some red flags. Now turn ons and turn offs are different for every woman but I think the biggest thing is being overly nice. If it seems fake and disingenuous because he feels entitled to sex if he does all these certain things just run for the hills. Unless you’re a slut willing to give it out to anyone that’s all he’s after. There is genuinely nice men but you can start to tell when it’s that type of nice guy.

Seeing major changes in someone such as the persona starts to fade away. When first meeting someone it’s easy to put a act on pretending to be someone you’re not. If someone starts being abusive, entitled, one sided, demanding, etc and they weren’t like that before it’s a bad sign.

Thinking he has control over you and he’s entitled to it is a major problem. True love isn’t controlling on either side

[Lliam]

She says she is transgender or. pan-sexual.

She says she is saving herself for marriage.

She has an infant and someone she calls her "baby daddy".

[AnneTheLady]

Why do you dislike trans and pans

[Lliam]

@AnneTheLady. I think they have mental problems. I'm into healthy heterosexual women.

[Lliam]

Thank you for the MHO. :D

[AnneTheLady]

Why exactly do you think that? Especially about pans

[SueShe]

I don't date and have no plans of dating but if I read the replies by a number of women here about dating, the most striking thing I notice is that there must be intercourse involved as early as the first date. If fornication is not an option, then a lot of men will simply not go on a first date.

That would certainly be my number one turn off and red flag when dating. This need to copulate right from the start simply indicates that those men are only seeking hookups and not really a relationship.

The same thing applies in the later stages of dating. Getting into a woman's pants is always the ultimate goal.

[glennos89]

I agree with you until I reached that last part about the ultimate goal. There you lost me kinda

[beenherebefore]

Early stages, love bombing, impatience, too many text messages, too many compliments, putting his hand on my lower back (p*sses me off so much).
Late stages, inconsistency.

[Asker]

Very true…. inconsistency is such a turn off

[blackeagle007]

What’s your biggest turn pff in a woman?

[alli-112]

Early: inability to hold a conversation, entitlement (especially towards sex), refusal to listen/be flexible

I find it really frustrating trying to initially talk to people who have a very explicit idea of how our interactions should work and aren't intersted in adapting to the person their talking to.

Late: Dishonesty, judgementality, inability to be supportive, lack of tolerance/kindness towards other people

If the person feels the need to argue even when they don't actually hold an opinion that opposes mine, I'm just kinda done. I've tried to work through that with someone. That sort of behavior I feel like is rooted in some really complicated and negative mindsets and I don't have the energy to sort through it with them. Arguing for the sake of arguing (and not in the fun way) is just not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Big ego, controlling, talks negatively about his ex or in a disrespectful way, disrespectful towards people in public, impolite, doesn’t pay on first date, doesn’t plan the dates and shows enough initiative, only talks about himself and doesn’t ask you personal question, only talks about your looks, tried to get in bed with you as quick as possible, doesn’t respect your boundaries eg gets mad when you set boundaries for physical contact, lovebombs you..

[ChristianMaeTorres]

Lack of emotion is a huge turn off for me. What are you a zombie? It's like listening to a monotone person talk forever, like it gets irritating after awhile. Show some emotion so I know your human and not a sociopath.
Then again, I'm very expressive. I talk with my hands, my voice goes up and down loud and quiet, like a heartbeat does when your alive. The monotone thing is like a flatlined heartbeat... Hella dead. I can't stand it.

[Josey29]

I find out he's a conservative Christian that follows red pill content.

I know with this combo he's about to shakle me to the kitchen sink, tell me I've hit the wall and try to pray the 304 out of me because I'm not a virgin.

[MysteriousDarkness]

So a red flag for you is a man that follows Jesus and loves the contry they live in. The red flag is actually you. You're the one who is lost and doesn't love the contry they live in. Typical liberal.

[Josey29]

@MysteriousDarkness He follows Jesus because he has a guilty conscience and he wants Jesus to save his soul after he's done lusting over naked women on the internet.

Do you know what a Christian man, a conservative man and a red pill man all have in common? They believe women are beneath them. Giant red flag!

[Screenwriter]

Body or breath odor. Like a clean, well-groomed man.

[NicholasRedone]

I'd imagine many women say "he changed" - and he became poorer lol 😆 😂 watch out ladies for those evil doers men out there

[In_Trance]

What exactly is a late stage of dating? Do mean right before he gives you the toe?

[Asker]

No, I mean when things start getting more serious or moving towards deeper commitment

[Anonymous]

Ego.

[chocolatetwopointo]

everything

[glennos89]

Says miss perfect