Advice needed (potentially awkward situation) ?

[Anonymous]

I've (20 something female) recently started with a male personal trainer at local gym. Only had one session so far but he seems genuinely nice and really knows what he's doing, I like him! Now I'm also on and off dating apps atm and only noticed yesterday that he liked my profile (I've tinder gold) but seeing as I haven't been using tinder the past week I don't know when he swiped right on me... I also had my account on pause for the last 3-4 days maybe. I'm not sure what I should do here, as perhaps he swiped right on me before our first session and didn't know who I was. He was really friendly and chatty during my session in the gym, but I imagine all PTs are like this as it's good business. We were supposed to have one again this evening but he's cancelled and rescheduled for tomorrow. Really not sure what to do but I do find him attractive and he is also moving abroad soon (in a few weeks time). Any advice welcome, pls be nice!

Updates

11 mo

So… I liked him back on Tinder but no match made! He may have deleted his account and now I feel terrible

[Anonymous]

The thing is, whether the match on tinder is new or old, that is not a relationship option you can even explore when you know he’s moving abroad. He’s about to start a whole new life over there, imagine trying to build and maintain a brand new LDR on top of that.

[Opinion Owner]

What was the point in liking him back? Like what is there to possibly gain from exploring romance with someone in another country? He’s going to be starting a new life girl, not trying to build a whole relationship across the pond.

[Asker]

I know, I just wanted to see how things might turn out short term…but you’re right, it’s really a dead end!

[Opinion Owner]

The only short term thing you two could’ve done was have some fun, if you catch my drift. I think that would make you like him more, then have to deal with the emotional taxation of him moving away.

I’m sure that thought comes to your mind, like what if you really connected to where he’d want to keep in touch once he moved and maybe do a bit of LDR travel, but that’s usually the sacrifices you make for someone you’re already dating and there’s the intent in place for one of you to move. It’s no way to start a fresh relationship, he’ll have so many other things to focus on. Hopefully having him as your trainer doesn’t intensify your feelings because that is a good deal of one on one time.

[EmmaMary]

Why not give him a going away present... By offering to let him give you a damn good fucking... Simples!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Abbycado]

He’s friendly and chatty because if he wasn’t, he’d not have people that come to him.

Plus, he’s moving abroad. This is a dead end.

[MasterKS]

Be cool! Be confidence its your life.

[Asker]

I swiped right back, but no match made so think he may have deleted his account? Should I just ask him out or try be flirty?