I’m 22 years old and I never dated before and I’m wanting to put myself out there but I’m kind of nervous because everyone has a certain type?

[Anonymous]

I’m not skinny I’m pretty thick and I always wanted to put myself out there but I’m scared to

[alli-112]

Everyone may have a certain type, but there's a lot of range and diversity in what people's types actually are. If there won't only super models would ever get married lol. Plenty of dudes like a curvier woman, even if plenty of others prefer a skinny girl. A guy that's not into you isn't right for you to begin with.

Might be productive to work on your self confidence a little first, or concurrently, Whether than means taking another look at your personal style, hitting the gym, or even just trying to shift towards more positive self-talk.

Beyond that, I'd just look into ways to get out more frequently socially, esp with people of your age group. You could always try apps, but you do have to be mindful of how you approach them just because of how they can affect your confidence/mindset/etc with regards to dating.

[DishLady]

No, not everyone has a certain type. Try not to think about it that way.

[SteveSmith1985]

Put yourself out there. Type means nothing really. It's not nearly as fixed as women seem to think.

Right now, I am nuts about a girl, who is not my usual type.

Don't let those worries stop you. Everybody's got them. (also... you do know that "thick" is... literally a type... right?)

But really, don't even worry about that. Put yourself out there. How else are you ever going to find the person you're looking for? You have to be out there.

🙂

[OneViewpoint]

You'd be surprised. They don't have "A Type" as in a specific pinpoint description of what they will accept. Most people have a pretty wide range of people they will find attractive when the look at the total package. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts so to speak,

[naartjie]

I’m in the same boat. I’m about to be 25 in November and I’ve never dated… though I know a LOT of men love thicc girls. Just pick CAREFULLY.

[WhitneySnow]

You’ll find some people who think you’re attractive

[Anonymous]

To date is to be rejected hun. There's no two ways around that. If you don't want to face rejection it's better you don't even play this game.

[Pterodon]

There IS someone out there that will want you

[wkhan_87]

What is the question?

[jahaims]

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