Should women approach men or is that seen as masculine?

[chris_987]

[Summeroflove]

If they want someone bad enough then they should or else they’re limiting their options. I answered someone a few minutes ago who was asking why it’s never the men she wants who approach her and she’s now according to her page in her 40s.

For people you don’t know or don’t know well who are genuinely attractive and not our just seeking sex. Because yes occasionally someone will be attractive but only wanting sex. Number one these men are being hit on all the time I would say some at least a few times a week even maybe some a day.

Not to mention many are taken. Many have women in rhier orbit that they alreadh have a connection with so they don’t need to seek that in a stranger.

When it’s the creeps, turds, and losers, as well as the occasional attractive male only after sex though.

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, it just fastens the process and it's not masculine at all, but they don't have to do it. Usually they just give you signs and opportunities for you to pick up on, which I somewhat prefer.

[naartjie]

I actually have before. I could tell he was either incredibly shy or just speechless or it was because I was with friends (both guys and girls)
I was at a spa and next to me was sat one of the most attractive guys I’ve seen in my life. I hadn’t realised he kept looking at me but one of my friends did and she knows my type so she got all my friends to sit which made me have to scooch over closer to him and I eventually turned to him and said “sorry I just had to say I find you extremely attractive” and the poor guy had a shaky voice and said he thought I was too. He was quiet after but we just stared at each other and then the guys in my group wanted to go and we left. He was also extremely hot so how nervous he was took me aback.

[Apple1996]

Yess ofc! I approached my husband first and i dont think it came off as masculine

[Zack-Bann]

I think people should do what feels right in the moment


Even if that means a woman approaching a man


I’ve been approached before and it was never a masculine action

[capriVib]

Though rare, some do approach; I think it’s not about being masculine but about being confident.