Should Women approach the men? Then the men will take you women on date?

[Anonymous]

I think now it’s 2023 the woman now have to ask the men out cause the guys won’t call women creepy at all.

Yes

No

[Avicenna]

Most women still feel it's the guy's job to do it, plus most women who do approach are not that good at it. That said, they should still approach- I can only speak for myself here, but if I'm single and a woman approaches me, unless she has hygiene issues or is really unattractive, I'd probably go on a date with her since she took the initiative.

[NathanDavis]

2023... some women would ask me out...

it was 2013... some girls would ask me out...

it was 2003... some girls would also ask me to dance...

it was 1993... many girls wanted to kidnap me...

it was 1113... we weren't that popular back then...women approaching me is nothing new at all... not for all men, anyway

[MoonlightShadow1111]

I think whoever's the one to approach first should also be the one to ask the person out on a date.

[IslaTheWitch]

Come on... whoever feels like that should do it. Life is too short to wait forever.

[lightbulb27]

I've had plenty of women approach me over the years. I find it odd guys say they don't get approached. It's fine, they are as aggresive as guys, especially as ages increase and they feel comfortable doing so. Women are about security primarily.

But it should not guarantee a date. That's pathetic and you know it. You want to be able to say no. If you can't, something is wrong.

[ChiTown33]

They should, but they probably won't. Despite the changing gender roles in society. It hasn't quite extended to the dating world yet. This is one area women do NOT want equality.🤣 Yes women will ask a man out. Provided he's a exceptionally attractive man. The RISK has to be worth the reward.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well, even if they should not approach men, then they should at least signal legal safety of approaching them. I'm not going to risk getting jailed for who knows how long for basically speaking to the wrong woman.

[Anonymous]

from my experience, men tend to be just as rude or even ruder than women when it comes to rejecting people.

yea... you want women to approach you because in your mind, you're only thinking about the young, pretty, slim girls that you want. You're not thinking about the chubby older girl.

[Unit1]

No girl thinks about the broke and not-muscular (not fat) men either.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

no man thinks about older women or fat women either.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

trust me when i say that a man will take absolutely any woman who is under 30, pretty, and slim. if you don't fit into any of those 3 categories, you have no chance.

[Unit1]

So what's your point then? I don't have many inflexible "must-haves" when it comes to the ladies. e. g. Age is just a number to me and women don't have to look anorexic.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

oh really? have you seen what men on GAG have said about women over 30?

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

and men have the audacity to complain that women's standards are high. take a look at your own standards

[Unit1]

i've seen it many times. I'm not one of them. I don't go around saying I'm not one of them. It will only paint a target on my back.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

yea well... vast majority of men dump their wives for someone significantly younger than her. I'm sure you will also do the same

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

meanwhile you're sitting here complaining about how young hot chicks always go for tall guys or rich guys. take a look at yourself.

[Unit1]

I tire of this dialog. I can't win. Blues will say I'm a simp and you give me that bullshit.
Bye.

[Vegasrunner]

@opinon Owner That is false. Most divorces are initiated by women.

[Opinion Owner]

@Unit1

you just can't accept the fact you're shallow

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

weren't you the one who insisted that you only dated women under 30?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner No. What does thar have to do w/ anything.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

tells us all about your standards

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Whats in it for me?

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

so don't complain about hot young chicks all preferring tall, handsome, young men. Old balding fat blokes like you will never get picked.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner That's not something that I've ever mentioned, sounds like you're tagging the wrong person. GL to you though.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

men chase the top 10% of all women.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner other way around. Women chase the top 20% of men. The other 80% settle for whatever they can get.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

you would only date women in their 20s. women in their 20s represent only 10% of the population.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Unfortunately for you this isn't something I've ever said, perhaps you've tagged the wrong person this must be so embarrassing for you.

[Jazzy54]

Not this woman. Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. I’ll show interest but I’ll never pursue a man again. Also, I don’t care what year it is and/or what other women choose to do, I will not be a part of that. 🙅🏾‍♀️

[Paul09]

I'm sorry, not sorry but that kinds sounds one sided and selfish. So it will be harder on you. Grown ass adults should be able to ask each other out no matter the sex. Do you not think men have bad experiences?

[Jazzy54]

You’re entitled to your opinion. However, I’m sticking to what I said above. Sorry not sorry. 😊

[Paul09]

Not an option , facts. . As long as you know you'll be single for longer.

[Jazzy54]

Then so be it. Take care, my friend. 😊

[Paul09]

You too

[Jazzy54]

👍🏾

[Unit1]

Of course. Down with gender roles and being brought up to be passive.

This upbringing (or lack thereof), that the girls get? That's how you either end up lonely or with an abusive and misogynistic alcoholic husband, that cheats on you.

[Boomchakalaca]

No it would make men look weak.
Dont mind asking out guys but not let it be the social norm

[ChiTown33]

Translation: "I will, but only if he's hot enough".🤣 "The rejection has to be worth getting rejected for".
"It would make a guy look weak" is a partial lie women tell themselves. Yes women are less attracted to a guy who does not take the initiative with her. But it's not that she really finds him less attractive. It's that she doesn't really feel that HE finds her attractive unless he's willing to risk rejection for her. And to a woman half of a man's attractiveness is his attraction to her. For a good woman it's physical, metal, psychological etc.

[Boomchakalaca]

R u having a hard time with women at 48?

[Fireguy17]

I lived in California years ago and while it was new to me, I thought it was pretty cool.
It felt like she was actually interested in me.

[docster]

Yes, but on the provision that the one asking pays for the date.

[Vegasrunner]

That's not realistic because people tend to act based on wants and needs. Women will always have men approaching so they have no need to approach men.

[Sharkstealth]

Unless your a model or the bouncer in a bar setting like the picture implies I wouldn't plan on them approaching.

We are living in a material world and I am a material girl.

[Paul09]

Both sexes should be able to ask out the other period. This silly gender role b. s have to stop. You're all grown ass adults lol. It sucks only men get to experience rejection..

[GirlaskingGuys88]

Id show interest for sure, maybe even suggest hanging out but I would not chase or pin down a man. Id 'drop the hanker-chief' so to speak...

[captain_voidwalker]

Yep you ladies should just stroll up and say

[Anonymous]

I don’t know what you mean, I’ve found plenty of women creepy. Men are less likely to publicly shame women for creepy behavior though.

[moviedude714]

I never thought it was possible for a woman to get labeled creepy

[Nikki1989]

Many women do approach.

[HawkPerception]

Funny... I've never been approached in my life 😂

[7Phoenix7]

@HawkPerception you haven't but some men have been lol

[HawkPerception]

@7Phoenix7 Guess I'm a low tier dude 😂

[7Phoenix7]

@HawkPerception I wouldn't say that

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yeah, whoever's interested should approach.

[Anonymous]

women never approach and never will. They only want equality when it suits them.

[ColHathi]

Enough with the silly rules.

[moviedude714]

Just seems unrealistic

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yes, shows confidence. That's cool.

[slatyb]

Yes, and maybe.