Should you pretend to be a normal guy when dating?

[Anonymous]

Pretend not to have money or be from wealth. Don’t say your profession for as long as you can. Like maybe not lie but just keep you cards close to your chest 🃏

Because if a girl still really likes you then you can trust her.

My only worry is that I have a feeling every girl will fail that test. Because that’s how they’re wired to seek out money in men.

I dunno can a woman actually love a man? Or love what he can do for her?

It’s smart for a guy to keep all cards close to his chest

I disagree he shouldn’t do that

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, I wouldn't recommend pretending to be someone you're not when dating. That's just gonna lead to trust issues down the line. Honesty is the best policy, my man.

I get where you're coming from though - it can be hard to know if someone's really into you for who you are, or if they're just after your money and status. But trying to "test" them by hiding important parts of yourself isn't cool.

At the end of the day, you gotta be true to yourself. The right person is gonna dig you for who you are, wealth and all. And if they're only interested in what you can provide, that's not real love anyway.

Sure, some women might be more inclined to go for the rich, successful dudes. But there are plenty out there who can see past that and appreciate a guy for his character, values, and personality. You just gotta find that real one.

Don't sell yourself short, bro. Own your story, your background, your accomplishments. The right woman will see that and appreciate it. And you'll know she's the one when she sticks around even after you open up about your situation.

Just be patient, keep putting yourself out there, and focus on being the best version of yourself. The rest will fall into place. Don't settle for anything less than someone who loves you for you.

[HawkPerception]

If you are wealthy, absolutely.

It's a white lie. You're not hurting her by withholding the information. It's a test of character. It's to see if she's with you for you or your money. The only girls that would be offended by this are the ones that would leave if you don't have enough money to meet their standard. Gold digger, materialistic women.

Any logical girl would understand that you meant no harm, that you're just trying to filter and find someone genuine, and when you tell her that you are actually wealthy, it would be only seen as a bonus rather than a main factor in deciding whether she'd be with you or not.

[Anonymous]

So you've protected your vast wealth but then once you've confirmed the girl is worthy of you she leaves you anyway because you've been lying to her from the beginning. "Testing" her isn't going to score you any points, either.

[petitedollbabee]

If you’re that concerned, then you should just stay away from dating women. Simple.

[Asker]

That’s true but if I am to be successful in life I need kids and family

[petitedollbabee]

Then find a woman who’s successful and wants the same. She won’t need your wealth if she has much of her own. Or will that lead you to feel inferior?

[Anonymous]

Normal guys don't have 37 accounts, a blowup doll and endless free time to be whiny internet crybabies. As long as you have enough money to keep your blowup doll inflated, you two will be happy. No actual woman will ever touch you so ask your therapist why you worry about things that are impossible.

[Anonymous]

It shouldn't come up. If she's angling to understand how much you got then shut it down.

This is always a sticking point with me. It perfectly understandable for a woman to ask what you do for a living. But it's very easy for her deduce how much money you make based on that. So I always try to be vague about what I do for a living.

[Zack-Bann]

Are you implying that you’re a successful man asking blue anon questions on this app?


Yeah ok buddy.


Don’t take girls to the bat cave on the first date
What can I tell you

[Nikki1989]

LMAO!

[Fanfare690]

Sex is a trade dude. U want sex you have to pay up either emotionally or financially lol

[Asker]

No woman is worth 50% of my fortune I work hard to build

[Fanfare690]

Get a prenup. Good luck!

[naartjie]

Asker, from your response, maybe just stay away from dating or ever being with a woman if you think this. Before you completely ruin some poor girls life.

[naartjie]

I think the best thing for you to do is just stay away from women.

[Sal_Monella]

I am cagey and cross examine.