What should you remember when a person chooses someone else over you?

[Anonymous]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"Cemeteries are full of irreplaceable people, all of whom have been replaced."

Which is a very cynical view about jobs, if taken at face value. But it can also be used as a counter-pressuring statement. This idea that, if there's no irreplaceable value then there is no legitimate expectation to incarnate a forever lasting value.

Assuming you're talking about romance and not jobs, I usually go with the idea that I'm not chosen over someone, nor someone is chosen over me. Because it's not about me inherently, it's about them, what they choose, what they need. What they need can be me, or not, or it can be me for a time and then not. I go with the same principle when it's me breaking up. I don't replace my past gfs because I can't, intrinsically, do that. And I remember them all anyway, whatever I do, and it's as it is supposed to be, in my views. What I really did was acting upon my belief and feeling that I lost hope about our future. I did it because this was the right thing to do, for me, in a context. As I assume they broke up because they believed it was the right thing to do for them, in a context.

[NathanDavis]

remember that... you're not entitled to anybody

[PeachyPie93]

Remember who you are and that there is no one in the world better than you. Don't let someone else's bad decision decide how you feel about yourself.

[jahaims]

Move on