Have you ever had to choose between two persons?

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And how did you choose and why?

SoMuchNut · Accepted Answer

Yes. Ironically they were both named Rebecca. the choice was very simple. While they were both very beautiful and interesting and fun however I had a much deeper attraction and connection to one over the other.
the relationship with the one I chose didn't last due to extenuating circumstances (no hard feelings), I ended up in a very long friendship with the one I broke up with.
I probably could have wound up dating both of them at the same time for longer than I did, and given that they had the same name I would never even have to worry about calling them the wrong name. But I really wanted to pursue something with the one of them, and I felt it wouldn't be fair to the other.

perislav85 · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I 've been a teenager and I took both of them 🙃

SydneySentinel · Accepted Answer

I don't recall the last time I had to do it. I usually chose the person who didn't tell me that I HAD to choose. Usually that tends to be the worse of the two.

WhiteShoulder · Accepted Answer

More than two lol

CapricornHoney · Answer

Yep. It wasn’t much of a contest though. One of them only wanted me for sex, the other genuinely wanted me for me. It was a pretty easy decision to make once I had figured that out 😂

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If I like two guys I will either a) Choose the guy I knew longer and was interested in earliest or b) Choose the relationship that seems more honourable and pure

tjkyle316197 · Answer

I've never cheated and yet I've had multiple occasions where I had to choose between two hearts, and at no time was it easy or did not hurt. I once had a choice between two friends, both beautiful and I had killer dynamics with both, as well as chemistry to die for. One was younger by maybe five years, the other some years older but not much. I chose the younger of the two because I made a promise to her we'd date if I was still single by the time we initiated the relationship, albeit what really drove me to her was obvious excitement at the prospect versus the other woman's provocative teasing was a less-obvious notion to me that she wanted me as badly, despite our chemistry being more concrete and undeniable.
Looking back I don't know for certain that I chose wrong but it feels that way as the one I chose left me just before V-Day and soon after went on to have a kid with another man. The other suitor was a gorgeous woman of whom I could have had a long and healthy relationship, but it still lies in conjecture and wishful thinking.
The other time of much import where I had to choose between staying with my wife who was actively cheating on me and another who promised love based on words and character without the much-anticipated and sought-for intimacy, I made the heart-wrenching choice of the latter but distance dispelled that chance at happiness as well.

No matter the amount of lessons learned, the one that stands as timeless and true as any is follow your HEART. Not your mind and definitely not your genitals.

Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over · Answer

Yes. I have that dilemma right now. I am floating the situation as long as I can but in March I will have to choose, effectively burning a bridge with one man. I’m hoping something happens before then to make the decision for me. If not, I’m going to choose the one that’s more available.

Kurαȷ · Answer

My longest-term partner was one of two people who I was mildly interested in at a certain point in time.
They were best friends and I was flirting with both, until one of them made the call and asked me out.
So I kind of had it decided for me.

Avicenna · Answer

Yes, and I chose the one that seemed more compatible. One time one girl decided she didn't like the competition and bowed out on her own. while I was still thinking it over.

I've also been one of multiple guys pursuing one girl.

R_ūshī · Answer

Yeah and I chose both👀 BAD IDEA, unless you're polyamorous.

razelove · Answer

I thought I had to once, then they both chose me and each other. That's when I discovered polyamory.

elite665 · Answer

Yes and I chose incorrectly  But I chose based on looks pretty much I lied to myself and said it was personality based but in the end I realized I was very wrong

QueenTanya · Answer

yeah a few times but i already liked one guy a bit more than the other so choosing wasn't too difficult

SirRexington · Answer

Sorta. There was a girl who I really liked but wasn't sure if she liked me the same way but there was another girl who showed more interest in me who was pretty cute although I knew the first girl prior and always had a crush on her.

Ultimately, the girl I had a crush on rejected me and the "backup" girl to start seeing if we were compatible started dating some dude. Leaving me alone yet again.

I hate my life. Even to this day. Nothing ever goes right. But it's MY fault isn't it.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Only in a would you rather situation... I picked the one who's dad wasn't present I ended up dating the one I didn't pick after she gave me head that night

jgokgotit · Answer

Nope. I've only ever dated one at a time. If two fought over me I left them both

serious · Answer

I have always been single and wish to remain single for life and hence such a situation will never arise in my life. Simple. Hence NO.

talltom94 · Answer

It wasn't a serious choice but it was simply fancying 2 girls, I followed my heart rather than my head (safe to say I'm never doing that again)💔

Tommy2017 · Answer

Yeah I did and the one I chose dumped me weeks later. If only I had known.

harrybrown · Answer

Yup, sure have, made a pros and cons list and one smashed the other out of the park when j really thought about it

MeanderingTrex · Answer

If they're both the same and both like me then I guess the one I think would more align with me long term

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and I chose wrong... And still biting my nails for it...

itsnotnabila · Answer

if u fell in love with two persons at the same time choose the second one becuz if u really loved the first one u won't be falling in love with 2nd

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah it was never hard since I always have someone I like more

_ritik · Answer

It basically resides on one's interest in you.. But if u still want to know whom to choose?
Then you should go for the second one who came to your life coz if u really loved the first one you might not have fallen in love with the second one

nyscoa · Answer

If u had to choose between two persons please choose the second if you're serious about the first you wouldn't have any thoughts of the second one

CoolKat21 · Answer

My last ex boyfriend ask me to if ok to have more then once girlfriends. I said no. he did cheated. I dumped him at College.

Lotusinwater · Answer

Lol Naa I’m not good looking enough to have two girls to choose from I’m lucky if I get one 😂👍🏼

The_man_whol_aughs · Answer

Were you in this situation? O frankly choose the third person , y trusty gaming systems

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

I have never been in that situation.

Jjpayne · Answer

Nope... I wish I was that lucky...

poneglyphs · Answer

Shit I never had to choose 1 person let alone 2

GloriaMc · Answer

Was ask but don't choose Just leave

Sha84 · Answer

I enjoy multiple relationships why chose one?

mePrashantdubey · Answer

I never got this opportunity

AJC997 · Answer

No I’ve never had this luxury

Anonymous · Answer

Yes all the time, women son't leave me alone.

Sethupathimano · Answer

Nope

james2018dean · Answer

Yep. And so I chose.

abcdefgahehe · Answer

Nope

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