Do women in relationships fantasise over other men?

[Anonymous]

Men who do their best. Do women still tend to have occasional lustful thoughts over other men?

I ask because men do it, we are wired to. I do think it’s more innocent though as long as the man controls himself

Can you ever be enough or will women always look for more? Even if she doesn’t act on it. Do they still lust🥵about that bad boy

Women do fantasise 🥵over other men despite being in happy relationships

No women don’t tend to fantasise over other men in happy relationships

[SueShe]

The excuse that men are "wired to fantasize over other women" aggravates me and infuriates me. There is no such thing as being wired like that. Men put themselves in that condition because they don't want to control their sexual needs. They are happy to be slaves of them and certainly don't want to be in control of them. Where would the world go if men would control how they rape, murder, sexualize and objectify women.

I am sure that there is the occasional hoe or nymphomaniac that will lower herself to the same level as men but they are by an overwhelming majority in a... minority.

We are in control of our libido, not the slave of it.

[HawkPerception]

It's okay to have thoughts about it. It's not okay to act on it.

[HawkPerception]

And for the record, we ARE wired to be attracted to women's physical traits in general. To say otherwise means you don't understand human biology.

[SueShe]

@HawkPerception bad wiring has led to a lot of catastrophes and misunderstanding. It is a weak excuse to state that men are wired to be attracted to women's physical traits. That is the kind of excuse that a court hears all the time in rape and sexual harassment cases.

[HawkPerception]

To compare rapists to being attracted to women in general is wild. Sure they use that as an excuse, but it doesn't mean everyone does. Your logic here is completely flawed. And if you think just because you're in a relationship with someone means they're no longer attracted to every other woman in the world, you're completely lost.

[SueShe]

@HawkPerception again, if you men would think with your secondary brain between your ears and not just with the primary one between your legs, then the world would be a safe place for women.

[HawkPerception]

You have a screw loose. I'm telling you just because we find other women attractive does not make us rapists or cheaters. It's fine to have the thought. It's not okay to act on it.

[HawkPerception]

Is that really that hard to understand?

[Screenwriter]

Brains are silly things, as well as desires. Neither makes sense. We simply have to live with them, as flawed and foolish as they are.

[Asker]

Truee

[Anonymous]

Of course. My wife tells me she fantasizes about Hugh Jacman when we're doing it. And I told her I can't even be mad about that.😆 c'mon he's frigging Wolverine!!!

[Avicenna]

No doubt some do