Do women fantasize over other men?

Question

I will be staying single for life. Although I’ve got all a man could want. I still feel insecure. You can never be enough for a woman, just satisfactory

Losalt · Accepted Answer

Mate, don't worry so much about it.
Just find a girl that is a good match, someone that's a good best friend and try to be hers.
And sure, other guys might be sexy or whatever.
But they'll never be *you*.
And no matter how she feels about any of them what ends up mattering is *your* relationship with her, nothing else.
Trust her to care about your feelings and wellbeing like you do hers.

Trust in your relationship with her and place that above all else.

And communicate, be open with her without blaming her etc.

Be someone she *wants* in her life.

If you do it really doesn't matter how you or another guy looks, or what they do or think or whatever.
You and her will be together in some way or other through thick and thin.

If one of you does something stupid that might hurt, but you'll get over it.
And the adversity can be used to strengthen your relationship by handling it well.

Women are just people, confused and lost, just like yourself.
They don't *want* to hurt you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Women fantasize and dream about celebrity men MUCH more than vice versa. You don’t see hordes of men going to Ariana Grande concerts thinking they are going to score with her.

Anyway just as long they aren’t some pathetic stalking groupy or something I just chalk it up to typical female behavior. They like to day dream about this.

However if she is seriously fantasizing about someone I know that’s a different story. It’s one thing to have having passing random thought. Quite another to dwell on it.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

I said most don't... but what I mean is majority of women mostly don't.

In my experience, I don't fantasize about any man than my own... unless I watch a movie with a handsome actor or read a romance novel and then I fantasize about them in that short time and as soon as it's over, I stop. And even that, I don't know if it's strong enough to count as fantasizing? I never fantasize about a real life person, that would indicate an interest in someone else and emotional cheating.

I'm sure some women do but when you're romantically unavailable because you're in a happy relationship then you won't really think about other men more than a surface level attraction when you're exposed to them. And even that is not always the case.

Also, I'd say if I even do fantasize it's again not about a specific person but about a situation or something specific about them. Like I'd sometimes see a man acting in a particular way in a movie and fantasize that my own would do those things to me XD

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not really. I do have sexual fantasies about my man all the time. I also genuinely feel sexually satisfied in our relationship, so that's not an issue as he does take care of my sexual needs. Sometimes I'll have some dirty thoughts about a hot celebrity I like (especially Hugh Jackman and Chris Evans), but celebrities are unobtainable so I don't think it's that big of a deal. I know he's attracted to Emilia Clarke and Elizabeth Olsen, and I'm fine with that (again, they're unobtainable celebrities).
However, the most that happens is that I'll have a dirty dream about a celebrity. I usually will feel guilty afterwards, so when I wake up or come home from work I'll do something sexual for him I know he'll really love. That makes me feel a lot less guilty afterwards.
But I can confidently say my man is the only one for me.

Gochogirl · Answer

Yes, but it's never INSTEAD of my man. If he asked me to never sleep with another guy but him I'd do it without hesitation. We're open though, I sleep with other guys/girls and he sleeps with other girls and we're both very comfortable knowing that at the end of the day we love each other and wouldn't quit to be with anyone else :)

So because of that openness I fantasize about guys I might be able to sleep with some time.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I believe they do. And from my experience, they act on it too. Even if it's in the tiniest way, it speaks valumes and they don't realize that until it's too late. Then they gotta beg and plead for their man not to leave them and apparently a lot of men out there who should leave, because once a Cheater always a Cheater, still stick around anyway. Probably because they're soulless and have no self respect. They no longer care about themselves because they've had a woman who claimed to love them for so long and now he's unable to care for himself. So he allows her to both fantasize and fuck around. I mean, it gives him more time to himself to play video games while she's off having babies and aborting the ones she doesn't want 🤷🏻‍♂️

KrisPW · Answer

I think we fantasize more about situations or experiences more than we do about a specific man. I'll notice a good looking man, or a kind man, but I'm not picturing myself climbing in to bed with him. At other times I may be fantasizing about being ravished by a man, or a handful of men, but I don't always have faces to put with them.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

What you wrote is exactly how women feel but nobody cares because it's just "normal" for men to thirst over other women.

In my experience we sometimes do but it really depends on how happy you are in your current relationship, how much in love you are.

oh_k789 · Answer

You are turning something perfectly normal — which is almost sure to happen to yourself more than to the average woman — into a source of angst for you.

Like I did for years. Not worth it. It may happen, as it happens with ourselves, and mean nothing still, as it means nothing to ourselves most of the times.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont ask for much sexually, so I dont see why i’d fantasize about someone other then who im dating. If he's a bad kisser or if i dont find his dick appealing then i can just break things off rather than fantasize about someone else. The only thing remotely close is that i still have dreams about someone I’ve liked since childhood but those dreams are more romantic/admitting our feelings rather than a sexually getting physical fantasy

Apple1996 · Answer

I think it's normal for everyone to have fantasies about other people... like shit sometimes I have fantasies about people I've never even met and my brain made up like does that make me a bad partner? I don't think so

Matcha19 · Answer

I can appreciate a good looking lad while being with my person. But, it would never escalate to the point where I’m making him insecure and/or question my love for him. It’s just a shiny thing to look at it; it has nothing to do with my experiences with my partner both emotionally and sexually. But, that’s me. Not all women are the same.

TransAm85 · Answer

Once a woman finds her love, she most definitely will not fantasize about other men. Rarely do I look at other men bc I do love my husband, but once in awhile a guy will stand out and catch my attention.

desidoll · Answer

Sometimes, eh I thought this is normal and harmless? 😐

hahahmm · Answer

You're insecure because you have not done/achieved enough in your own life that makes you trust/believe in your own value. I wouldn't care if my wife was daydreaming about another dude half of every day. As long as she stays loyal.

lrina · Answer

such an incel post. can't get a woman, meaning they all suck! yeah whatever man... but some women fantasize about men some don't. i never did.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course we are. I sometimes fantasize MMF with the guys that i know. I masturbate daily and sometimes it is hard to think different fantasies but i think women who has strong libido always fantasize about other men.

Anonymous · Answer

I’d say that pretty much all of them do, same goes for guys. But personally, it doesn’t bother me because I would actually think its hot if my girlfriend has been fantasizing about other guys and I’d be down for her to have sex with that guy as long as I’m there when they do it. So if that happened and I found out, I would want to sit down and talk about how we can make her fantasy a reality, that way she can enjoy some hot sex with a new guy and I can enjoy the show 🙂

Elony · Answer

I fantasize all other mennnnn even if they dont like me, mmmm , especially when im not fully satisfied in s3x it adds more wants and fuels to it

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but that's not a bad thing. Seems pretty normal to me.  Have you ever heard this saying: "It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just as long as you come home for dinner?"

Gaibriel · Answer

Ya maybe if they aren't in love anymore. If they are in love they will want only you.

Squaresquirrel · Answer

So, you're insecure, therefore you blame women "women suck". Alright.

MountAverage · Answer

Oh you will definitely stay alone forever. And that's a good thing - for all women. Fucking incel loser.

Ray1980 · Answer

ALL the time. Just don't expect them to all be honest about that:)

Nata2496 · Answer

There's always some who aren't loyal with either sex. But personally my husband is enough for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Some do I suppose, but it’s not to the same extent that men do it.  And only lucky men get women who suck. 😜

ImNoOne111 · Answer

About the 'woman suck' part, I ask you to reconsider your mindset as there is something wrong there. And women do fantasise. Both the results and my girl agree

fonduegirl · Answer

Of course! It's only natural. PS. Did u mean it as a pun, women suck?

Anonymous · Answer

I can't speak for other women, but I don't. I'm very happy with my boyfriend and have no desire to fantasize over anyone else.

Jadethedream · Answer

Don’t feel insecure love yourself there will be someone out there that loves you for you

sp33d · Answer

We fantasise about other women, too. Why are her fantasies a problem? "You can never be enough for a woman" Why?

zagor · Answer

What they fantasize over isn't important. It's whether they run around trying to fulfill those fantasies when you're away.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yep. Fuck it, we do. Wait, I meant other women! Yeah totally women.

anylolone · Answer

Almost all do. If she thinks about one man, she thinks about multiple men. Same as dudes.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman will eventually get bored or tired of you. It's hard to keep a woman happy or satisfied for many years.

Anonymous · Answer

The most common female fantasy is being force fucked by a stranger.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Absolutely not, I don’t. Some do.

PrettyPriya · Answer

I most certainly do not.

siseñor · Answer

i suck? time to go on hrt and cry myself to sleep

Sarahr123 · Answer

Good women don’t like good men don’t

dustybiker · Answer

I’m happy. No need when you are happy.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Depends on the woman. I don't.

Wise4myage · Answer

Most don't, and some that do would never admit it.

IsoUser · Answer

Why would you even want to know seriously?

Киттйлинк · Answer

👀... 🤦🏼‍♀️

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup most of us do

Xtendable · Answer

I voted C. The women I’ve been with have done both

E7A31 · Answer

I don't because I would feel guilty lol

robocop666 · Answer

thats what cuckolding is

NibirX · Answer

Good decision Same here buddy

Heartache0405 · Answer

Definitely

Aphrodite801 · Answer

😂😂😂

flirtatiousgirl · Answer

Yes I'm

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes..,,

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

Voted c

Anonymous · Answer

Yes of course we do.

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