How do I stop obsessing over girls?

[Anonymous]

So I am very picky when it comes to girls and when I like someone I really like them. I only pick the ones I am so sure about.
How some guys have their sport, that thing in my life is love. It’s not that I don’t have distractions, but it’s my drive for everything.

maybe I’m wired the wrong way I don't know, but it always makes me overthink and all the bad shit. Because I am still of the age people use snap i sometimes even watch their score when i get ignored or am on delivered.

It’s so effed up and i hate it

[Anonymous]

What kind of women u like? And how do u look

[Asker]

I don’t really have a type, just has to match well.
And I am a 7,5-8

[Opinion Owner]

How does your crush look

[Asker]

I’d say same level

[Opinion Owner]

Describe her

[Asker]

Pretty, tall girl that is intelligent and yet beautiful and doesn’t always see her own worth

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t? That sounds toxic

[Asker]

I remind her, but she isn’t always in the greatest mental state to be fair

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds really toxic. How tall are u

[Asker]

I am 6’3

[Opinion Owner]

Do u like why girl now

[Asker]

I have no clue, it just happend like it always does

[Opinion Owner]

How does she look

[Asker]

She looks great. Or how do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Like height? Weight? Skin colour?

[Asker]

I think like 5’10, slim, white

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow. Pretty. What type of hair?

[Asker]

Inbetween blonde and brunette. Not sure what it is

[Opinion Owner]

Do u love her?

[Asker]

Yes a lot

[Opinion Owner]

What are her best qualities?

[Asker]

Intelligence, just her personality it is a great match. And she is just drop ded gorgeous

[Opinion Owner]

How long have u been together

[Asker]

We aren’t..

[Opinion Owner]

Are u lighter skin than her?

[Asker]

What lolll, what does rhat have to do with it.
But ni we’re both white

[Opinion Owner]

U aren’t together?

[Asker]

No we aren’t, why do you think that?

[Opinion Owner]

U said u love her

[Opinion Owner]

But u aren’t togather?

[Asker]

Yes and yes

[Opinion Owner]

Whyyyy

[Asker]

Shit happens i guess

[Opinion Owner]

Wdym. How does her face look? Hair?

[Asker]

She just got a pretty face, slim. Her hair is a mix of blonde and brunette

[Opinion Owner]

How heavy are u both

[Asker]

Haha no clue, we’re normal build

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh. Aren’t u dating anyone?

[Opinion Owner]

U don’t want porn? What do u do then?

[Asker]

No i am not?

[Asker]

I want a relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Oh how long is her hair? How heavy are u both

[Asker]

Average length no clue about exact weight

[Opinion Owner]

U still talk to her?

[Anonymous]

I do that on occasion , I hate being left on read

[Asker]

The thing is i never get left on read but sometimes when i am on delivered and someone is active i lose my mind and no distraction is enough depending on the circumstances

[Opinion Owner]

I get like that sometimes , but not all the time

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[Tempest_Flame]

one word. porn.

[Asker]

Barely watch it.

[Tempest_Flame]

it will help

[Asker]

Thanks, i’ve considered abstaining fully. Will try now

[Tempest_Flame]

no, I mean watch it more

[Asker]

Why lol?

[Tempest_Flame]

because your brain doesn't know the difference between having real girls and fake girls. if you have more girls, you think less about them