How to stop being delusional about girls?

[Anonymous]

Like this really hurts me most of the time. I meet a girl I like and I think so far in the future then nothing ever comes of it. If you’ve ever heard the song “Just a dream” by Nelly, it’s like that. Then I tell myself “I won’t date any girl from work and I’ll let myself improve in most parts of my life” then the same girl or a different one walks up and I’m falling for them. I don't know if this is loneliness or if I’m just wanting a close friend or what it is. I like them but I feel like I’m ruining good friendships

[Anonymous]

Stop getting attached. The only way a guy stays successful with women is by not getting emotionally attached. Be like them! Live in the moment. Enjoy the moment. If you see a a woman who's a better fit? Dump her! Her feelings are not your problem, they're hers! If she dumps you? Move on to the next woman. A woman who dumps you is just God's way of saying it's time for an upgrade.

This is the game my friend. And make no mistake about it. It is a game! Stop treating it so seriously. Good luck!

[SphynxUK]

If you want friends, seek friends and do friend things. Don’t try and be friends with girls you like.
If you want a girlfriend, find someone who likes you too in that way and date. It’ll either work or it don’t, but take it one step at a time. Getting too serious too soon isn’t a good look. No need to think about the future until you’re a year down the line and still into each other!