What’s Up With Guys Being Bitter/Jealous About Women Having More Options Than Them?

[Aphrodite801]

Like if a girl says she has lots of options some guys will try to put her down and say that every woman has tons of options and she’s nothing special. Super cringe. Many women have little options in the dating world and many men have more options than women in the dating world. Nothing to do with gender. All about being attractive and standards. It’s not our problem y’all are easier. But stop being delusional saying every woman has tons of options. That must make you type of guys feel better when comparing yourselves to us? When seeing how much more you struggle/are not as wanted. But it’s delusional and false lmao. And super cringe.

I know

I don't know

It’s super cringe

Updates

+1 y

Had a couple of these clowns comment on my question as expected lol

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Most men can't take responsibility for themselves or their actions. They're used to Mommy or Daddy saving them from themselves.

Men *can* have equally abundant options. But most of them fuck it up for themselves before they even get a chance. And instead of taking accountability and building a life that would be interesting or valuable, they blame women and become incels.

It's just weak-minded men doing what they do best: be babies.

[Aphrodite801]

^Lmao, such a cringe bitter guy. Not our fault your type are easy and replaceable.

[Aphrodite801]

You are exactly right girl, but you know that already lol

[Sandeeppingping]

I've seen a few of your previous answers and hated how you were just a white male hater, but I must say this is very accurate and actually or technically good advice, nice answer

[Smoke-n-Growls]

@Aphrodite801 Lol, thanks! I love your response to the first guy, too.

I wish guys stopped fucking themselves over and just put in some effort. Don't get me wrong, there's some very excellent men out there. They're just very very very rare, and not interested in people who don't have their own lives together. Which I totally get.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

@Sandeeppingping I'm pretty rational, though I'll admit my disdain for cishet white men is fed by two failed relationships with cishet white men.

It's certainly not true for every cishet white man, but as I said to Aphrodite, it's extremely rare to find cishet white men who aren't incompetent manchildren.

I'm also bisexual, so I'm honestly more interested in women. It's just that I was approached by men before I found a woman I wanted to date. Now I know to refuse men and spread my wings in sapphic circles.

Thanks for your reply.

[MaxRobespierre]

@Smoke-n-Growls I am not bitter or an incel. I made something of myself with a job in cybersecurity getting paid 350k a year and my son's goes to private school. And I did it all with no wife. I am no weak mind baby. Most men can't do what I do. I worked hard at being exceptional because i have the internal drive to it. And thats why son is top in his private school. A woman doesn't have to put any working into being exceptional. She gets boys at school drooling over her at 16 and guys drooling over her in her early to mid 20s period. There are homeless with no options. You're right most guys don't have the internal drive to be exceptional, but the same is true for women as well. Which is why I can't find any women on my level or who can keep up with me. As long as my son successful and carries on my legacy I could care less about a woman.

[Aphrodite801]

You are a bitter incel and apparently a single dad dude. You clearly are not doing as good as you falsely claim lmao

[Aphrodite801]

Most guys can do you what you do. And women have options at all ages sorry to tell ya. @MaxRobespierre go cry about not being wanted somewhere else. Wrote that essay for nothing lmao

[Smoke-n-Growls]

@Aphrodite801 Lol, he straight up admits what's wrong with him: he doesn't expect equal effort from his wife.

What self-respecting woman would stay with a man who doesn't think she's capable of equal success? Lol.

No wonder he's single. He's obsessed with his "legacy" more than actually making something of the present.

[Aphrodite801]

Lol that cringe bitter guy literally maxed out the amount of words you can type on here in his reply to you. Clearly triggered by what you said which is the truth. Oh well though

[jongreat46]

@Jxanadu get yourself you freaking incel.

[Flower7]

Men don’t put effort into their appearance. Then they get mad about women not being attracted to them.

[jongreat46]

the ones who do it are the incels who are bitter that no woman will want to have sex with them.

[jongreat46]

I know what you mean, they even do this to other guys; look at all the incels out there who are mad when a guy is getting more dates than them and possibly sex if it happens. I am bi-sexual but for me flirting comes natural and if I manage to hook up with a person then great, but if not then oh well; yeah it stings a little to be rejected but hey life goes on but some of these incels are so bitter about it and I don't feel sorry for them. I am sorry these boys (not men) feel the need to tear you down, they are projecting their own insecurities onto you. Also I would like to say that if you date then do it on your terms and not because you feel pressured to do it. I can tell you right now I am not a 10 on the scale, I am more like a 5 and a half and in height literally and overweight I can tell you that it is about how you project yourself and your looks are secondary, but it doesn't hurt to want to look your best. Just be yourself and also screw all the haters out there that will tear you down; you are far ahead than the rest by even putting yourself out there in the dating scene. Just ignore all those incels who will tear you down and in case you hadn't noticed, I really freaking hate incels.

[BlueScorpio]

Cause they are jealous and want the same amount options. Or they know it will be harder for them to compete for some women since she does have a lot of options, a lot of men hate having to compete for a woman's affection cause some of them want it to come easy. As a woman I was definitely one of those girls that didn't have a whole lot options growing up, so I'm not sure what they mean. Not every guy I like, liked me so it happens with women too.

[jongreat46]

I think because they are bitter that they got rejected by the popular girl and word spread about him and as a result; he got rejected by everyone else because no one wanted to date him in high school.

[LaneHale42]

I'm not sure because I don't see men and women as comparable in that way. I can't be jealous about women having the option to be with guys when I don't even like guys. I'm a heterosexual white male who's mostly attracted to Asian women. I'm always just happy in my own Lane doing my own thing.

[jongreat46]

she means the incels online.

[MaxRobespierre]

I mean if look at homeless people you'll notice most of them are men who haven't had their dicks sucked in years. How many women do you think are going to want to invite them into their homes just to have sex and be a stay at home dad? When women go homeless they usually can get a boyfriend. So would you date a homeless man yourself, if he was a cute guy? Would you let him in your house if he looked like Brad Pitt?

[rtj1211]

Maybe some of them actively had options destroyed by women who weren't satisfied with all the extra options that they had, as they were driven by destroying men rather than celebrating their own achievements?

It certainly happens.

[jongreat46]

oh please, no one especially women owes you nothing even if you are supposedly "nice".

[Glenn_lawrence]

guys who say that know they are not the best option she sees. but guys who know they are of high value are not even concerned with her options because they know she sees him as her best option

[Aphrodite801]

No such thing as high value. This isn’t a marketplace.

[Glenn_lawrence]

ok if not a marketplace would you prefer leagues?

[Ryan1979]

Women do have more options than men. Weather they are options you want is another story. I can 100% guarantee that if a woman exists a relationship she can find a new relationship quicker than a man in the same situation, minus the luck factor.

[Aphrodite801]

Is that now what I said? It’s just cringe when y’all are bitter about it like it’s our problem.

[Ryan1979]

It's not your problem it's your benifit.

[Aphrodite801]

🤣🤣🤣 you thought I was reading all that incel 😂😂 get a life.

[Aphrodite801]

@Ryan1979 benefit or not can’t be bitter to us about y’all being easy. It’s actually kind of cringe when y’all are super easy women say it all the time. Yet you guys don’t care and get mad when we have standards 😬

[rabbitzzz]

Why would a guy be jealous of a woman? I thought a guy can only be jealous of another guy.

Anyways women don't like weak men and tries to rub salt on the wound and this post is prime example lol.

[Aphrodite801]

Get a reality check? Guys are jealous about stuff women can do all the time lol

[Aphrodite801]

Your last sentence didn’t even make sense so, goodbye lmao

[Čiadas]

Face it. Men want sex. All a woman has to do is spread her legs and there's a line of dudes drooling with their dicks out. So yes, women have more options. You may not like it but it is what it is.

[Aphrodite801]

Learn to read then come back to my question maybe? Cause you aren’t making sense

[Aphrodite801]

Oh and to actually reply to your stupid comment, no it is not that simple for a woman to get sex. And no every guy isn’t a horny lame like you thinking about sex all the time. Face that.

[jongreat46]

his comment, made me cringe, the only types who think about sex are incels like this creep.

[KittyBox]

I'm not a woman with a lot of options, and im not a guy that cares too much about these things, so I have no idea, do whatever makes you happy.

[vishu_0007]

I believe girls have many options, but believe me your options mite be in someone else's waiting list too

[Aphrodite801]

You believe all do? You’re pretty delusional then.

[vishu_0007]

I believe

[Aphrodite801]

🤷‍♀️ weird. But you are obviously single talking like that

[vishu_0007]

I might be wrong but a person with real beauty in his or her heart might never say it , boys who are jealous about girls having more options might be insecure and if some one is insecure for some one then they have genuine feeling for other

[stef85]

Honestly Who Cares!!