I believe being obsessed and "Too Obsessed" is kind of a funny thing is a weird way to word it considering one is no better than the other.
I know a lot of people on here tend to respond with sometimes harsh answers, or maybe that is just the way I perceive them. Regardless, when you read this please keep in mind that I have no attitude backing it, these are just the simple facts.
There is this girl I see quite frequently all of the time in my neighborhood. I have literally become obsessed with her. She is like 8 years older than me (Me, being 21) and is already dating someone. I constantly feel like there is some "Romantic" connection although she never really says anything to that degree. I have a fairly strange schedule, but it keeps turning out that when I am leaving, playing sports in the field behind my house, or up playing basket ball she is always there. Now without going into too much detail, I feel like our timing is almost set up. I almost feel kind of creepy in a way. Not because I do this on purpose of course, but because sometimes I really wish I didn't see her so often because it looks like I am doing it on purpose! If I do give her a wave (She always looks up and stares at me), she blushes big time.
My biggest problem is that I have just become obsessed. Not to the degree of "I can't do normal activities without thinking about her" or "I screw my friends over to find a way to run into her". But I feel like I, myself have gotten out of control. I guess its more than a "Crush", as younger kids say, I just cannot get enough of seeing her.
I know a lot of people on here tend to respond with sometimes harsh answers, or maybe that is just the way I perceive them. Regardless, when you read this please keep in mind that I have no attitude backing it, these are just the simple facts.
There is this girl I see quite frequently all of the time in my neighborhood. I have literally become obsessed with her. She is like 8 years older than me (Me, being 21) and is already dating someone. I constantly feel like there is some "Romantic" connection although she never really says anything to that degree. I have a fairly strange schedule, but it keeps turning out that when I am leaving, playing sports in the field behind my house, or up playing basket ball she is always there. Now without going into too much detail, I feel like our timing is almost set up. I almost feel kind of creepy in a way. Not because I do this on purpose of course, but because sometimes I really wish I didn't see her so often because it looks like I am doing it on purpose! If I do give her a wave (She always looks up and stares at me), she blushes big time.
My biggest problem is that I have just become obsessed. Not to the degree of "I can't do normal activities without thinking about her" or "I screw my friends over to find a way to run into her". But I feel like I, myself have gotten out of control. I guess its more than a "Crush", as younger kids say, I just cannot get enough of seeing her.
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As for the question...What do I do to stop this? Or will time kill it off. or make it worse.
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