Why am I flustered around the girl I am really into? How do I stop embarrassing myself? How do I stop overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I am handsome, I go to the gym, I am intelligent and I know that. Yet I am so insecure around a certain girl because I find her so beautiful in many ways and it's the first time I want to date to marry. I had more girlfriends than most people my age, but I didn't like their personality so much, so it was easy to get with them. I still approached this girl despite my nervousness, despite my impulse to run away. She probably saw I was quite flustered, and she was too, but she looks like that all the time.

[Flatmanlewis]

You are flustered because you are worried about the failure of this doesn’t go your way. It’s actually pretty natural. Just be yourself and find your natural way. Don’t try to be too much of anything because it comes off fake and women can sense BS most of the time.

[Anonymous]

I get that way too. I'm still figuring it out.

[HateyouxD]

Sounds like a match made in heaven. I wish I had that courage years ago with my gym crush but nope lol

[Anonymous]

Lack of confidence.

[Anonymous]

Focus on improving your self confidence.