Why would fiancés female coworker friend like pictures that my fiancé put up of us when she knows I don’t like her?

[Anonymous]

She knows that I dislike her. My fiance put some pictures up of us on Instagram. She liked them straight away. Why would she do this when there is friction between us? I feel like she’s trying to annoy me on purpose

[_Maya_]

You might have answered your own question. If she knows you don't like her and she has similar feelings about you she could be doing it to annoy you and get under your skin. If you show that it doesn't bother you she will likely stop if that was her intention to annoy you. When she realizes that it isn't working she won't bother. I am not saying this is totally 100% the reason she is doing it but it definitely could be. Girls can be caddy like that. The bigger question is why you both have such a dislike of each other and how to deal with it. You should also make it aware to your fiance.

[avery58]

Maybe she did so to let you know that she doesn't have a problem with you?

Either way if you've talked to your husband, he respects your concerns and sets boundaries and you trust him then it shouldn't matter much. He still has to have at least a cordial acquaintance relationship with her if they're working at the same place.

If he doesn't then that's on him more than her.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I’m reading into this wrong but sounds like you’re the one w the problem. Maybe she does t have an issue w you. You haven’t given a reason as to why you don’t like her. Jealous of her cause she’s prettier or something? It’s also possible too that she’s liking them to make you mad. This story needs more context. Right now you just sound bitter toward her.

[AviatorTom]

She probably thinks they are nice pictures of a cute couple. How you feel about her has nothing to do with jt.

[DishLady]

Tbh I do that with my guy friends to make sure the b*tchy girlfriend/SO knows I’m trying to be cool with her in being part of my friend’s life. If she’s a good influence on his life I’ll like those pics for sure.

[Asker]

So you don’t do it to annoy the girlfriend?

[SugarSugarplum]

I'm guessing that she likes her coworker, and is unwilling to shut people out because his fiancée gets inky about it.

Just a guess though.

[dustybiker2]

Probably to be supportive of her friend? And a little to annoy you. Key is to not let people know they irritate you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe SHE is trying to make peace with you. Are you open to that?

[Dinklex3]

She’s showing support to her friend, regardless if you dislike her.

[HelpfulWoman]

18-24 And so eager to try to create beef/drama?
chill the fuck out.

[LaurenM1997]

Why don’t you like her? She’s your fiancé’s co worker

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she's due for an anonymous box of chocolates (laced with laxatives) or a gift basket from Bath & Body Works with products laced with clothing dye.

[RedInnocent69]

Because she likes your fiancé and is trying to be supportive.

[Anonymous]

They sound like work buds. Even if she is jealous, he's still marrying you.

[sheikalana]

She doesn't care what you think.

[jahaims]

She is work friends with your fiance

[In_Trance]

Because she likes the picture

[KrakenAttackin]

She is and it's working 😂