Before he met me he was following a lot of girls, liking a lot of random sexy pictures. He toned this down a lot when I asked him too.
I just saw that he reacted with a love heart emoji to an ex colleagues picture. She was on a night out in a nice dress looking attractive.
It hurt me so much that for some time I just sat crying in my bedroom.
Am I being ridiculous?
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It doesn't sound like either of you are ready for marriage. He's not respectful of your feelings and you feel entitled to control him. You knew from the start what his behavioral patterns were, yet you expected him to change who he was for you. Guys are not lumps of clay to be molded by women. Any changes you force on him will be temporary and/or conditional. You're focusing on what you expect of him rather than accepting him as he is. If you don't like what you see, keep looking. Find someone who already is the type of partner you are seeking rather than expect others to change for you.
Could be a red flag. Does he use red hearts to everyone? Or only when he is flirting? I think you should talk to him about it.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT