What's your threshold for considering something cheating with a stripper at a party?

[ginger_snap]

[NathanDavis]

well, this is something I would have to have a conversation about with my partner... it would be more about how do they feel about these things and what kind of stuff they would not be okay with because some people would consider and feel like the mere fact that I actually want to go and see another woman get naked... a wrong by itself

and others might not mind it much or at all, as long as it is a show

and then of course, there might be the ones who could be like "great... I'm going with you"

[Summeroflove]

That they engage sexually at all with a stripper. People just keep excusing things as not cheating. And keep pushing that line more and more until they’ve done everything under the sun behind someone’s back.

[NoDecision]

Cheating is cheating, no matter who it is with, if you are in a relationship with anyone else. Batchelor Parties are not excusable from this rule. If you want to screw around then don't have a committed relationship, because obviously, it is not "committed".

[Anonymous]

Lap dance. Definitely anything more than that.

[HawkPerception]

The stripper being at the party would be cheating from my perspective

[Anonymous]

It has to be Casablanca. It was a good 40 years ahead of it's time in depictions of relationships. It has some very funny scenes... "I am shocked, shocked to find there is gambling going on in this establishment" ... "Here are your winnings, sir", etc. And it has some immortal lines... "Here's looking at you kid", "Play it Sam. Play As Time Goes By", "Well Louis, I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship", etc, etc.

[Zack-Bann]

I understand the culture around it and a lap dance isn’t the same as her fucking him but my personal boundary involves my partner not getting touchy with any man, stripper or not

[virgo2267]

My wife accused me of cheating because the stripper smothered me with her ass on bachelor night… but truth be told she thought I was the bachelor… and also, she smelled sweet like roses and bubble gum

[Caliguy88]

I think kissing. I don’t feel like a handjob would be, ht everything else would be. I’ve gotta an handjob at a club. They put a rubber on and like 3 girls made me cum so fast into that rubber.

[bowenw]

Anything beyond a full disclosure and no touching.

[RHK36]

There's no threshold. Cheating is cheating. People just look for excuses to act the worst.

[Jersey2]

The key determining question is, does any part of my body smell like her vagina.

[WonderingManII]

I guess if you are having sex with the stripper.

[bananathunder]

I'd say penetration. Most strippers will grind on you and touch you but not allow a lot of touching back

[Wise4myage]

No contact for me, but I don't judge what others may or may not do.

[exitseven]

anything that requires physical contact.

[Alex-Snow]

Ok to look at but never touch or have sex

[ilistengood]

Is she closer to him then 3 feet?

[Jennz6]

I don’t get it because I’m the stripper 💃

[jahaims]

Being by a stripper is cheating

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have a stripper at my party.

[zagor]

Penetration.

[jjj101010]

No contact

[Anonymous]

Explain