Is going to a strip club and getting a private lap dance considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

Yes

NO

[xxAjjxx]

It's cheating. Don't listen to the immoral opinions shared. Just because your spouse agrees and say it's ok, doesn't mean it's not adultery.
Cheating means to be unfaithful, and when you get married, it's to mean that all sexual desires will be expressed with that person only.
I'm getting a bit annoyed by the world. If you're going to have sex with someone else or go to strip clubs to get a women why get married in the first place. But no body have morals in the world so enjoy your lust at this club, have a good time. I doubt any good looking women will be there anyway unless you are willing to spend 💵💵💵💯

[Nojudge]

Its dumb for letting the lady to shake her booty in your lap and waste of money!

[Anonymous]

In my opinion it is, because the intent of having a private lapdance and going to a stripshow is to become sexual aroused by the strippers. You don't need to touch in order to be cheating. It's not healthy for any relationship , unless your SO is ok about it

[kimichi]

It's cheating if you haven't told your girlfriend beforehand, because lap dancing is sexually arousing.

[upood]

Yes. Just ask your s/o if you can go to a strip club for guys night or something...

[reixun]

Only if he does it behind my back

[xxAjjxx]

Oh haha so if he lets you know first then it's all good

[reixun]

Well it depends on our relationship and what I expect from it. If I feel okay with him getting a lapdance at that moment then he should absolutely be okay with me getting a lapdance from a hot boy stripper. Give and take.

[xxAjjxx]

Right. Because when you're a couple, you're suppose to have your needs satisfied by other people. Marriage is just for the fancy rings and fairy tale weddings.
Where did I ever get the idea couples are suppose to satisfy each other needs
#imSuchaDumbass

[reixun]

@xxAjjxx well if we're on the topic of non monogamy in *marriage*, I think you'll have a detailed answer to this question:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2304031-would-you-be-interested-in-sexual-non-monogamy-during-your-marriage

My opinion isn't a very popular one, I do however have a very obvious line between things that work in fantasy vs reality.

[xxAjjxx]

Are you saying my post is fantasy and no one does that and your approach to a relationship is better?

[reixun]

@xxAjjxx? You lost me there

[xxAjjxx]

Ahhh nvm then lol

[ChooChooHaha]

Your intentions aren't proper to begin with. This sexy stranger's either naked or might as well be, working you up.

I mean, how could you not want to attack this stripper? This perfect bodied, naked stranger that teases you so bad you want to fuck her. Your mouth gets to be on every part of her body, you can smack her ass, and she might grab yours. But then think of how bad your woman feels: she might get the dirty, desirous sex, but you want it to be that stripper you're doing those dirty things to. And that kills us women. And not just that night, for weeks, if not months. Your woman would kill to be her, because she wants to be the one you want for that too, not that stripper.

How would you like it if your woman had some random, sexy man grinding on her, kissing her, feeling her up? But then she comes back to you, and you get that sex? But it's not about you, it's cause he made her lose her mind when he was teasing her. And she does things to you, thinking of him, wishing it was him she was blowing, wishing it was his body on hers.
Lmg, you don't like it very much...

[That1tallguy]

would you feel uncomfortable with a male stripper giving your girlfriend a lap dance and shaking his dick around her face? if you do then you shouldn't get 1 if not then I don't know what to tell you maybe ask her

[slatyb]

That's entirely between you and your girlfriend. If she's ok with it, then it's fine. If she's not, and you do it anyway but don't tell her, that's not very nice. If you can't live without this, and she can't live with it, then you have to break up.

[Wonderer89]

If he lied or tried to hide it yes, if we'd talked about it beforehand and agreed on limits then no.
Personally i wouldn't agree to it though... strip clubs yes; private contact no

[JustinTheGreat]

Every relationship is different. Some people are totally okay with their partners going to strip clubs (like me)

[reptocarl]

If nothing else it shows you're a fucking idiot for spending money for such a stupid thing

[oboeyoudidnt]

Yes it is. If you feel uncomfortable telling your girlfriend, it's cheating

[Nelsoen]

I would feel uncomfortable telling my girlfriend that I shit my pants. Is that cheating?

[oboeyoudidnt]

I'll rephrase what I said.

If you feel uncomfortable telling your girlfriend something sexual (physical or otherwise) you did involving another person, it's cheating.

Kinda bad you had to have me spell it out.

[Anonymous]

Anyone who says yes is retarded. Is a guy getting a lap dance from stripper at his bachelor party cheating?

[lord_chilled]

well would you bee ok with a male stripper with a giant dick grinding on ur girls ass?

[Nightinggale]

No. Cheating is sexual. A lap dance is not sex so no.

[Anonymous]

There's no penetration

[annomous]

duh.. of course it is!

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Just why the fuck would you do that lamo

[xxAjjxx]

I get high too, think about growing if I can get a job. Save tons of money that way wish me luck

[Pac-Man]

Yup.

[rgb008]

Yes.

[BeastRB]

No shit

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeah.

[Dred1614returns]

Yes.