He only wanted to be friends with benefits, meanwhile there is very little difference between me and the women that he has dated/dating?

[Anonymous]

This guy that I was seeing only wanted to be friends with benefits. Meanwhile, there is very little difference between the women he has dated or is dating. We all look similar (tall, slender, with brown skin), carry ourselves in a similar way, have a similar style, similar socioeconomic status and life style (college educated, corporate job, etc.), and similar background. Yet, the way that he treated me compared to them is a complete 180. He is wining and dining them, but he didn’t want to be seen in public with me.

[RHK36]

It meant you good enough for sex but nothing else. What's the issue? Don't want to get treated like you basic then don't be basic or better yet date better men. He sounds like a fuck boy, but you out there with him being thirsty because you won't look at the red flags.

[Asker]

Well, I don’t know what’s so bad about my personality.

[Jersey2]

Well, you are friends with benefits. You aren’t in a relationship with him, nor should you be. Look how he really treats his girlfriend. He cheats on her with you. She gets taken to a restaurant and is given hope of a relationship, that’s the only difference. You aren’t in both going to be forgotten in a couple of years.

[PeachyPie93]

Well if you basically look the same then it's your personality.. If he doesn't want to treat you how you want to be treated move on and do not give him your time.

[Asker]

Well, I guess I’m trying to figure out what’s so terrible about me personality-wise.

[PeachyPie93]

It doesn't mean there is anything wrong.. he just isn't for you. I had guys treat me like I wasn't important then go on to treat other girls important who just ended up cheating on him lol. If someone doesn't like you that is on them. Raise your self esteem and don't ever let people treat you like you are small or less than.. and you will find someone better. Make men work for you, and if they don't then drop them without a single thought.

[DishLady]

Because you've already given him what he wanted from you.

[StephanieChick111]

He probably got hurt by those women and wants to take it slow with you. Be a good girl and you will be rewarded.

[capriVib]

Suddenly stop messaging, he's using u

[jahaims]

It's because you're just a cum rag to him.

[Anonymous]

And your question is?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t like you

[Asker]

Clearly…

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah ik

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you should watch sheraseven or wiz lizard advice on men