Dating

Why did this guy delete me off social media?

Me and this guy have been talking for months causually and light flirting. We met up a few times... its hard to meet up when we both have kids and work a lot. He planned the first two dates. Then asked me to come over.

I finally got the time, and told him I could come over. I had the date and time set. I'm not going to lie, I am an insecure person. With the 2025 hookup culture and social media, I question men's intentions all the time. I'm not into hooking up.. I want courtship.

I was honest and told him nicely that id love to hang out, but Im just not wanting to hook up. My insecurity got the best of me too, and I said I didn't want him to feel obligated to hang with me. He responded with, "If you had plans just say so." I said I didn't have plans, and that if I didn't care about him then I wouldve ghosted him tonight. He then deleted me.. I'm bummed, I'm not going to lie.. I was hoping for a little reassurance such as, "We can do something! We dont have to hook up."

Why did this guy delete me off social media?
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